عرضت دولار أمريكي رجال غزة لأرامل الشهداء أربعاء

من قبل آن على Jan.16, 2010, خلال تعدد الزوجات في وسائل الإعلام

غزة, آذار / مارس 24 (شينخوا) — وقد شجعت حركة المقاومة الاسلامية حماس غزة الرجال على الزواج “أرملة شهيد” مع مكافأة 3,000 الولايات المتحدة. دولار لكل, لكن المشروع أثار انتقادات من جانب جماعات موالية للنساء, وفقا لناشط حماس الثلاثاء المرأة.

وقال ناصر ناديا للصحافة ان المكافأة النقدية ” هو تشجيع الشباب يتزوج النساء اللواتي فقدن أزواجهن من نيران الجيش الإسرائيلي.”

”ويهدف المشروع إلى توفير حياة مستقرة للأرامل, وخاصة الشباب الذين فقدوا أزواجهن أيام أو أسابيع بعد الزواج,” وقال ناصر, مضيفا “هذه هي أفضل طريقة لحماية النساء مسلم.”

في ديسمبر ويناير, أجرت اسرائيل هجوما لم يسبق له مثيل في قطاع غزة, مما أسفر عن مقتل أكثر من 1,300 الفلسطينيون. حول 43 تم في المئة من الضحايا من النساء والأطفال وبقية الرجال, ومعظمهم من الشبان.

لكن, وأثار المشروع انتقادات من جانب حماس الموالية لمجموعات النساء. سميرة عبد العليم, وقال مدير لجان المرأة أنها “يحط من كرامة المرأة الفلسطينية الذين ضحوا دائما جنبا إلى جنب مع الرجل.”

”المرأة لها الحق في اختيار زوجها,” وقال عبد العليم, تطالب السلطات لتعديل قانون الأحوال الشخصية ويحظر تعدد الزوجات.

وقالت حماس ان اولئك الذين يريدون الاستفادة من المشروع ينبغي أن تكون قادرة ماليا لل “يجب أن ينص على زوجتين أو أكثر ، وتكون على استعداد لرعاية الأطفال من الزوجة الجديدة.”

يجب عليهم أيضا أن تكون ملتزمة بمبادئ أخلاقية ودينية ، وتوفير “مكان خاص للزوجة الجديدة.”

الائتمان للمعلومات أعلاه: 2009-03-24 10:28:04 GMT2009 - 03 - 24 18:28:04 (بتوقيت بكين) شينخوا الإنجليزية

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الصفحة الرئيسية
January 16th, 2010 على 7:00 PM
I strongly disagree with the martyr stuff. Allah tells us in Quran not to kill ourselves. Inocent people are being killed as well as Believers.

في, لكن, like the requirements that men should meet to take advantage of the cash reward to marry widows:

.Be fiscally capable of Providing for two wives or
more
.Be ready to look after the children of the new wife
.Be committed to the moral and religious principles
.Provide a private place for the new wife

I don’t know how any Muslim man could purport that he follows the sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), and not provide each of his wives separate dwellings. If Muslim men can’t afford to house the wives in separate dwellings due to the high cost of housing in 2010, then they shouldn’t have more than one wife-simple. The excuse that the women prefer it that way is unacceptable. It’s not the way of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). It’s an innovation.

What do you think about the housing situation for Muslim men, practicing polygamy?

هذا هو البيت المفتوح. لا حاجة لضرب. فقط تعال في يوم.
Live, Laugh, Love
January 17th, 2010 على 3:27 PM
Interesting. In terms of the housing situation, I’m not sure. I’m trying to place myself in that situation. Having only been in that situation briefly myself, I’m not so sure how I would want to play it out long term.

Would I want to go without seeing my husband for a few days at a time, or would I want to watch him have this attraction and be intimate with another woman? I’m not referring to sex although knowing that is going on would be tough. I mean kisses etc….

I’m sure that the women cannot make the decision as to what they want and/or can tolerate can they?
الصفحة الرئيسية
January 17th, 2010 على 4:56 PM
knowing me, I wouldn’t be able to handle seeing my husband slapping his other wife’s behind, or them making goo goo eyes at each other, hinting they sneak off to the bedroom. I could envision myself outside their bedroom door at night when it’s not my turn, trying to easedrop on the conversation. I certainly don’t want to hear any love making coming from that room. What I don’t know, see, or hear, can’t hurt me. So with that said, I’d rather go without seeing my husband for days than subject myself to that mental and emotional anguish.

Alex knows better than to approach me with the suggestion that he, Carolinah, and me live in the same house. Alex always knew that wasn’t Islamically correct.

I think Muslim women settle for cohabiting with their husband’s other wife out of a desire to have a husband that they wouldn’t have otherwise. Why else would they not want their own home? I could understand a woman having her own home and not requiring her husband to contribute, as he doesn’t have the money. She relinquishes her rights. I can’t see multiwives in a polygamous marriage cohabiting in Islam.

I like your question, Live, Laugh, Love and I thank you for sharing your thoughts on the subject. مثلك, I’m interested in knowing what more readers out there think or feel about it.

Live, Laugh, Love, you asked, “I’m sure that the women cannot make the decision as to what they want and/or can tolerate can they?

هذا هو البيت المفتوح. لا حاجة لضرب. فقط تعال في يوم.
Live, Laugh, Love
January 17th, 2010 على 5:23 PM
That’s just it. The situation you described is one I ended up in and it was without a shadow of a doubt beyond horrifying.

I’ve grown a lot since then but I still have thoughts that if placed in that situation again I would react the same way as I did before. I was so hurt from it the first time with the way hubby and other wife acted during that brief period of time towards each other and their disregard towards me and my feelings.

I do know though that there are women out there that can handle and do love the poly lifestyle and would not trade anything with living in the same house together with their sister wives and husband.
الصفحة الرئيسية
January 17th, 2010 على 5:50 PM
I’ve grown a lot too, but I don’t think there’s that much growing in the world for me. God doesn’t put a burden on us more than we can bear, we put the extra burden on ourselves. A man and a wife were meant to live together in peace and tranquility. I think that can happen between a Muslim husband and a wife, living together with their children in their own home-just the husband and one wife. How could there be peace and tranquility otherwise?

Without a doubt, I could imagine how horrified you were to have that stuff going on in your face.

مثلك, I know there are men and women who are very content all living together in polygamous marriages. I don’t know much about their religion, but I think it’s done with a higher purpose in mind, which helps them adapt and seek peace and I respect that.

هذا هو البيت المفتوح. لا حاجة لضرب. فقط تعال في يوم.