Yhdysvaltain dollari Tarjotaan Gazan miehet ke Lesken marttyyreistä

mennessä Ann on Jan.16, 2010, aikana moniavioisuuden Media

Kaasu, Maaliskuu 24 (Xinhua) — Islamilainen Hamas-liike on kehottanut Gazan miehiä naimisiin “leski marttyyri” kanssa palkita 3,000 USA. dollaria jokaisesta, mutta hanke herätti kritiikkiä, jonka pro-naisten ryhmät, mukaan Hamas naisten aktivisti tiistai.

Nadia Nasser kertoi lehdistölle, että käteispalkinnon ” on kannustaa nuoria naimisiin naisia jotka menettivät miehensä, jonka Israelin armeijan tulituksessa.”

”Hankkeen tavoitteena on luoda vakaa elämän lesket, etenkin nuoret, jotka ovat menettäneet miehensä päivän tai viikon kuluttua avioliiton,” Nasser sanoi, lisää “Tämä on paras tapa suojella musliminaisia.”

Joulu-ja tammikuussa, Israel suorittaa ennennäkemätön hyökkäys Gazan, kuollut yli 1,300 Palestiinalaiset. Noin 43 prosenttia uhreista oli naisia ja lapsia ja loput olivat miehiä, useimmat nuoret.

Kuitenkin, Hamas hanke herätti kritiikkiä, jonka pro-naisten ryhmät. Samira Abdel Aleem, johtaja Naiset valiokuntien sanoi, että “huonontaa ihmisarvoa Palestiinan nainen aina uhrattu rinnalla mies.”

”Naisella on oikeus valita miehensä,” Abdel Aleem sanoi, vaativa viranomaisia muuttamaan henkilökohtaista asemaa lainsäädännössä ja kieltää moniavioisuus.

Hamas sanoi niille, jotka haluavat päästä hyödyntämään hanke olisi verotuksellisesti kykenee “määrätään kaksi vaimoa tai enemmän ja on valmis hoitamaan lapsia uuden vaimon.”

Niiden täytyy myös olla sitoutuneita moraalisia ja uskonnollisia periaatteita ja antaa “yksityinen paikka uuden vaimon.”

Credit edellä info: 2009-03-24 10:28:04 GMT2009-03-24 18:28:04 (Pekingin aika) Xinhua Englanti

Jaa / Tallenna

5 Kommentit tässä kohdassa:

Etusivu
16 tammikuu, 2010 on 7:00 PM
I strongly disagree with the martyr stuff. Allah tells us in Quran not to kill ourselves. Inocent people are being killed as well as Believers.

Vuonna, kuitenkin, like the requirements that men should meet to take advantage of the cash reward to marry widows:

.Be fiscally capable of Providing for two wives or
more
.Be ready to look after the children of the new wife
.Be committed to the moral and religious principles
.Provide a private place for the new wife

I don’t know how any Muslim man could purport that he follows the sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), and not provide each of his wives separate dwellings. If Muslim men can’t afford to house the wives in separate dwellings due to the high cost of housing in 2010, then they shouldn’t have more than one wife-simple. The excuse that the women prefer it that way is unacceptable. It’s not the way of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). It’s an innovation.

What do you think about the housing situation for Muslim men, practicing polygamy?

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Live, Laugh, Love
17 tammikuu, 2010 on 3:27 PM
Interesting. In terms of the housing situation, I’m not sure. I’m trying to place myself in that situation. Having only been in that situation briefly myself, I’m not so sure how I would want to play it out long term.

Would I want to go without seeing my husband for a few days at a time, or would I want to watch him have this attraction and be intimate with another woman? I’m not referring to sex although knowing that is going on would be tough. I mean kisses etc….

I’m sure that the women cannot make the decision as to what they want and/or can tolerate can they?
Etusivu
17 tammikuu, 2010 on 4:56 PM
knowing me, I wouldn’t be able to handle seeing my husband slapping his other wife’s behind, or them making goo goo eyes at each other, hinting they sneak off to the bedroom. I could envision myself outside their bedroom door at night when it’s not my turn, trying to easedrop on the conversation. I certainly don’t want to hear any love making coming from that room. What I don’t know, see, or hear, can’t hurt me. So with that said, I’d rather go without seeing my husband for days than subject myself to that mental and emotional anguish.

Alex knows better than to approach me with the suggestion that he, Carolinah, and me live in the same house. Alex always knew that wasn’t Islamically correct.

I think Muslim women settle for cohabiting with their husband’s other wife out of a desire to have a husband that they wouldn’t have otherwise. Why else would they not want their own home? I could understand a woman having her own home and not requiring her husband to contribute, as he doesn’t have the money. She relinquishes her rights. I can’t see multiwives in a polygamous marriage cohabiting in Islam.

I like your question, Live, Laugh, Love and I thank you for sharing your thoughts on the subject. Like you, I’m interested in knowing what more readers out there think or feel about it.

Live, Laugh, Love, you asked, “I’m sure that the women cannot make the decision as to what they want and/or can tolerate can they?

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Live, Laugh, Love
17 tammikuu, 2010 on 5:23 PM
That’s just it. The situation you described is one I ended up in and it was without a shadow of a doubt beyond horrifying.

I’ve grown a lot since then but I still have thoughts that if placed in that situation again I would react the same way as I did before. I was so hurt from it the first time with the way hubby and other wife acted during that brief period of time towards each other and their disregard towards me and my feelings.

I do know though that there are women out there that can handle and do love the poly lifestyle and would not trade anything with living in the same house together with their sister wives and husband.
Etusivu
17 tammikuu, 2010 on 5:50 PM
I’ve grown a lot too, but I don’t think there’s that much growing in the world for me. God doesn’t put a burden on us more than we can bear, we put the extra burden on ourselves. A man and a wife were meant to live together in peace and tranquility. I think that can happen between a Muslim husband and a wife, living together with their children in their own home-just the husband and one wife. How could there be peace and tranquility otherwise?

Without a doubt, I could imagine how horrified you were to have that stuff going on in your face.

Like you, I know there are men and women who are very content all living together in polygamous marriages. I don’t know much about their religion, but I think it’s done with a higher purpose in mind, which helps them adapt and seek peace and I respect that.

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