Američki dolar Ponuđena Gaze Muškarci do sri Udovice mučenika

prema Ana na Jan.16, 2010, vrijeme poligamija u medijima

GAZA, Ožujak 24 (Xinhua) — Islamski pokret Hamas je ohrabrio Gazi ljude da se udaju “Udovica mučenika” s nagradu 3,000 SAD-a. dolara za svaku, ali je projekt izazvao kritike pro-žene skupine, prema aktivist Hamas žene utorak.

Nadia Nasser rekao je novinarima da je gotovina nagrada ” je potaknuti mlade žene koje su izgubile oženiti svoje muževe strane izraelske vojske požara.”

”Projekt ima za cilj pružiti stabilan život za udovice, osobito mladih koji su izgubili svoje muževe dana ili tjedana nakon braka,” Nasser je rekao, dodavanjem “ovo je najbolji način zaštite muslimanske žene.”

U prosincu i siječnju, Izrael provodi bez ofenzive u pojasu Gaze, poginulo više od 1,300 Palestinaca. Oko 43 posto žrtava su žene i djeca, a ostatak su bili muškarci, većina njih mladih.

Međutim, Hamas projekt izazvao kritike pro-žene skupine. Samira Abdel Aleem, Direktor žena odbora rekao je da “degradira dostojanstvo palestinskog žene koja je uvijek žrtvovao uz čovjeka.”

”Žena ima pravo izabrati muža,” Abdel Aleem je rekao, zahtjevan vlasti da izmijeni zakon i osobnog statusa outlawing poligamije.

Hamas je rekao onima koji žele dobiti prednost projekta mora biti fiskalno sposobne “predviđaju dvije žene ili više i moraju biti spremni da se brine o djeci novog supruga.”

Oni također moraju biti predan moralnih i vjerskih načela i pružiti “privatno mjesto za novu ženu.”

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5 Komentari za ovaj unos:

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January 16th, 2010 na 7:00 PM
I strongly disagree with the martyr stuff. Allah tells us in Quran not to kill ourselves. Inocent people are being killed as well as Believers.

U, međutim, like the requirements that men should meet to take advantage of the cash reward to marry widows:

.Be fiscally capable of Providing for two wives or
more
.Be ready to look after the children of the new wife
.Be committed to the moral and religious principles
.Provide a private place for the new wife

I don’t know how any Muslim man could purport that he follows the sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), and not provide each of his wives separate dwellings. If Muslim men can’t afford to house the wives in separate dwellings due to the high cost of housing in 2010, then they shouldn’t have more than one wife-simple. The excuse that the women prefer it that way is unacceptable. It’s not the way of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). It’s an innovation.

What do you think about the housing situation for Muslim men, practicing polygamy?

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Živ, Smijeh, Ljubav
January 17th, 2010 na 3:27 PM
Interesting. In terms of the housing situation, I’m not sure. I’m trying to place myself in that situation. Having only been in that situation briefly myself, I’m not so sure how I would want to play it out long term.

Would I want to go without seeing my husband for a few days at a time, or would I want to watch him have this attraction and be intimate with another woman? I’m not referring to sex although knowing that is going on would be tough. I mean kisses etc….

I’m sure that the women cannot make the decision as to what they want and/or can tolerate can they?
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January 17th, 2010 na 4:56 PM
knowing me, I wouldn’t be able to handle seeing my husband slapping his other wife’s behind, or them making goo goo eyes at each other, hinting they sneak off to the bedroom. I could envision myself outside their bedroom door at night when it’s not my turn, trying to easedrop on the conversation. I certainly don’t want to hear any love making coming from that room. What I don’t know, vidjeti, or hear, can’t hurt me. So with that said, I’d rather go without seeing my husband for days than subject myself to that mental and emotional anguish.

Alex knows better than to approach me with the suggestion that he, Carolinah, and me live in the same house. Alex always knew that wasn’t Islamically correct.

I think Muslim women settle for cohabiting with their husband’s other wife out of a desire to have a husband that they wouldn’t have otherwise. Why else would they not want their own home? I could understand a woman having her own home and not requiring her husband to contribute, as he doesn’t have the money. She relinquishes her rights. I can’t see multiwives in a polygamous marriage cohabiting in Islam.

I like your question, Živ, Smijeh, Love and I thank you for sharing your thoughts on the subject. Like you, I’m interested in knowing what more readers out there think or feel about it.

Živ, Smijeh, Ljubav, you asked, “I’m sure that the women cannot make the decision as to what they want and/or can tolerate can they?

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Živ, Smijeh, Ljubav
January 17th, 2010 na 5:23 PM
That’s just it. The situation you described is one I ended up in and it was without a shadow of a doubt beyond horrifying.

I’ve grown a lot since then but I still have thoughts that if placed in that situation again I would react the same way as I did before. I was so hurt from it the first time with the way hubby and other wife acted during that brief period of time towards each other and their disregard towards me and my feelings.

I do know though that there are women out there that can handle and do love the poly lifestyle and would not trade anything with living in the same house together with their sister wives and husband.
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January 17th, 2010 na 5:50 PM
I’ve grown a lot too, but I don’t think there’s that much growing in the world for me. God doesn’t put a burden on us more than we can bear, we put the extra burden on ourselves. A man and a wife were meant to live together in peace and tranquility. I think that can happen between a Muslim husband and a wife, living together with their children in their own home-just the husband and one wife. How could there be peace and tranquility otherwise?

Without a doubt, I could imagine how horrified you were to have that stuff going on in your face.

Like you, I know there are men and women who are very content all living together in polygamous marriages. I don’t know much about their religion, but I think it’s done with a higher purpose in mind, which helps them adapt and seek peace and I respect that.

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