A Free Fun and Exciting Marriage Site is Here!
로 앤 on Dec.13, 2009, 동안 polygamy - 여파, 섹션 2
제작의 결혼 4 당신. com is a marriage site that is totally, absolutely and unconditionally free! There are no upgrades, no hidden costs, and no credit card is required. Polygamy options are available too. It’s a new fun and exciting marriage site for everyone.
Marriage in the Making 4 U is the marria제작의 결혼been waiting for. It’s the most advanced and technological marriage site you’ll visit on the internet. Marriage in the Making 4 U는 새로운. 엄청나게 흥미로운 그것은 재미 있어요. Best of all, 그것은 완전히 무료입니다.
제작의 결혼 4 U는 3D 도시로 완성된다; 3D 채팅; Instant Messaging with Voice; Video Greetings so you can meet someone in real time; 이메일 및 기타. Each member may use all of the features provided by the site at no cost to them.
제작의 결혼 이후 4 U is in its infant stage and brand new, we ask you to be patient while we acquire members. We are working daily, 사이트의 트래픽을 유도. Patience is a gift that reaps abundant rewards. Be one of the first to become a member of Marriage in the Making 4 당신. 당신이 합류 드리겠습니다!
제작에 정신 결혼에 보관하십시오 4 U is strictly for those seriously seeking marriage. Polygamy options are available, 뿐만 아니라.
제작의 결혼 4 U will be unconditionally and totally FREE until January 31, 2012, after which a reasonable membership fee may apply. 세계를 만드는 과정에서 결혼에 대해 알려주세요 4 당신. You’ll be glad you did. 그것이 무료 기억!
지금 가입. 여기를 클릭하십시오: http를://www.marriageinthemaking4u.com /우리와 함께 부담주십시오. We’re trying to get rid of the bugs in the program . Some feature may not be properly working yet, but we expect to have them up and running soon.
우리는 당신에게 배우자에 대한 탐구에 최고 꼭 성공하길.
이것은 오픈 하우스입니다. 필요가 노크. 그냥 들어와.
답장를 남겨주세요
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Salaamu의 Alaikum으로!
일부 다처제에 오신 것을 환영합니다 411! 우리 집에는 무슬림과 비 무슬림입니다. 그것은 polygamy에 대해 이야기하고자하는 모든 이들을위한, 또는 polygamous 결혼에 있거나 누구 하나를 입력하는 것을 고려하고있다. 우리는 회사를 가지고 같은. 편하게하고 의견을 떠나는하여 토론에 참여. 우리는 앞으로 또 곧 자주 모습을보고.
여행 4 적게!
December 13th, 2009 에 11:30 PM
salaam sis
congrats on the new site!
So is it just an information site? A dating option for polygamous singles looking for families?
December 14th, 2009 에 12:01 AM
Wa Alaikum As Salaam Sis!
Thanks much, Amina! It’s going to be a professional site for all those (무슬림과 비 무슬림) seriously looking for a marriage partner or partners, including those already married, looking for someone to join their families.
We’re hoping all will have fun while meeting one another. Eventually it will be an informative site, 뿐만 아니라, but the focus initially will be on getting people in there, communicating with one another.
이것은 오픈 하우스입니다. 필요가 노크. 그냥 들어와.
December 14th, 2009 에 8:51 AM
Anna how did you like the coffee? I am recieving good reviews from others! What are you waiting for, try it you might like it Anna?
Mike
I LOVE MY COFFEE
December 14th, 2009 에 12:27 PM
It sounds interesting Ana! I can’t wait to see it! :^)
December 15th, 2009 에 12:52 AM
Mike, I have heard only good things about the coffee. I’ve received my order; 그러나, haven’t tried it yet. 결국, I must be sensible and wait until Alex is with me and for the right time to drink it. Planning is everything. I have to set the mood. I’m sure there will be plenty of people trying it out over at the marriage site, 뿐만 아니라. 그래서, perhaps you’ll get more feedback, once the site is up and running. I’m glad you’re enjoying coffee! Take it easy with it
Live, Laugh, Love, I’m getting even more excited about the marriage site, as Dr. Omar has expressed an interest in joining us over there. It should be all good.
이것은 오픈 하우스입니다. 필요가 노크. 그냥 들어와.
December 15th, 2009 에 12:56 AM
Dr. 오마르, Salaamu의 Alaikum으로!
It’s like you are a Godsend. It would be my pleasure to have you post your guidelines for men and women, on the new marriage site once it’s up and running.
I’ve enjoyed reading what you have written in response to what you have read on the blog. Your assessment of many of our readers’ situations and circumstances has been very insightful, enlightening and informative. You’ll undoubtedly be a huge asset to the new site. We look forward to having him on board.
이것은 오픈 하우스입니다. 필요가 노크. 그냥 들어와.
December 20th, 2009 에 11:06 PM
Hi Mike,
Getting back to you on the Magic Power Coffee, I tried the coffee and was extremely impressed. I normally drink StarBucks Lattes, but I think I’ll stop buying those and buy Magic Power Coffee from now on. The taste is light and smooth. It looks like a latte, 뿐만 아니라. It has a nice delicate, aroma and was pretty, steaming from my cup. It gave me a wholesome, mellow feeling, and seemed to have alleviated all my stress. It didn’t make me jittery or uneasy, like I thought it might. I felt very, very nice… submissive to my husband
It’s the type of coffee a woman can drink daily, get nourished, be healthy, feel alive, vibrant and happy. I’m going to order some more tomorrow. Goodbye StarBucks!
January 6th, 2010 에 3:22 AM
Salaam To All,
I am looking forward to the new site and pray Allah blesses it with HIs guidance and refuge. I will paste below an excerpt from a new book I am writing on marrige, just to wet the appetites of Knowledge seekers and also to add something new to the postings here for Zainab’s sake ….
Taqua is the active pursuit of virtue and balance in thought and deed so as not to exceed the boundaries set by Allah. It is the acquisition and practice of adab whereby we choose what is good and beneficial. For the comprehension of marital relations, it is therefore incumbent upon all who profess Islam to acknowledge the following:
1. male does not equal female;
2. seek to ackknowledge attributes that are male and female;
3. recognize the need for both sets of attributes as equally applicable to human affairs;
4. apply both male and female attributes appropriately in judgments and deeds for the community‘s well-being.
These qualities are not confined solely to the family, nor are they a kind of property to be utilized according to any man’s whimsy. They are a means whereby we come to know ourselves and hence our place in creation as vice-gerents of creation. Man does not rule alone, and he who thinks this way is a tryrant who lacks wisdom.
While a man is one-sidedly goal-oriented and immediately seeks to deposit his sperm, this is not so for the woman. Her resistance is a natural restraint that guides her husband to responsible social etiquette. A virtuous wife requires the genteel ‘persuasion’ of which our Prophet spoke. Communication is her foreplay; gentlemanly conduct is her aphrodisiac; a comfortable secure nest is her couch of bliss, and slow, knowledgeable hands with manly endurance are her path to orgasm. All of this stands in stark opposition to the gruff approach and is a God-given challenge to improve their good manners and discipline. To ignore these requirements is like ignoring the formalities of solat or protocols for entering the royal court.
The responsible Muslim should learn the etiquette of proper marital relations in the same manner he studies the etiquette of solat and social proprieties. Otherwise he remains a hypocrite of the highest order, for such a man has forgotten that marriage is the mosque in which he is the imam!
More to come soon insh’Allah
wasalaam, dr omar
January 8th, 2010 에 9:44 AM
Another Excerpt from “The Taqua of Marriage”
The Purpose of “Touch”
“O mankind! We have created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know one another. Verily, the most honourable of you with Allah is that believer who has At-Taqua (Piety).” Q, 49:13)
“알라, it is He Who has made for you the earth as a dwelling place and the sky as a canopy, and has given you shape (form) and made your shapes good looking…” (Q, 49:64)
“He created the heavens and the earth, and He shaped you and made good your shapes, And to Him is the final return.” (Q, 64:3)
“And be not like those who forget Allah, and He caused them to forget their own selves. Those are the Fasiqun (rebellious).” (Q, 59:19)
The verse does not say “We have created you from a part-male and a part-female.” Nor is it written that Adam was created Androgynous as claim Gnostic Christians, Freemasons, Satanists and Shi’ite Batinites. There is absolutely no ambiguity or duality in authentic gender indentity as pristinely ordained and created by Al’Mussawir, the Bestower of Form. As the verses imply, the first marriage was conceived in love and the contextual implication is that ‘At-Taqua’ (piety) accompanied the marriage of male and female which was then imparted to subsequent generations as a product of the romance Allah established between the perfectly male Adam and perfectly female Eve ― both of whom were perfectly “good looking shapes.”
The purpose of this divinely ordained romance is thus the expression of our submission, trust and faith in Allah, and this is only accomplished through the sense of “touch” that inclines us towards the attainment of At-Taqua, without which we cannot bequeath As-Sakkinah (peace and security) to our descendents because without touch there are no descendents. If this is how we started, then what has happened to us and the estate of marriage?
The perennial war between the sexes exists because Muslims in particular, as Mohammad’s vice-gerent polity, have failed to intelligently acknowledge, define, utilize and justly defend the gender specific differences Allah created and established between men and women. Instead of unity there is a diversity of divisions despite the marital facades that promenade as pedestrian masjids.
Marriage has become a kind of ‘trench warfare’ with spouses dug-in on either side of the gender-line and where in-between lay ignorance of the “other” as a kind of no-man’s land wherein insults are traded and frequent devastating assaults launched. It is also a place where … when no one is looking … passionate ‘touch’ takes its natural course only to be denied its rightful place of pristine glory as the social continuum of a pious afterglow.
When the Prophet took the oath or pledge of loyalty, he touched hands with those giving the pledge. The gesture humanly affirmed the mutual promise to preserve As-Sakkinah and support this oath with their lives and blood if needed. Essentially, and as an analogy, this byatt also represents the pledge of marriage as a communal acknowledgment of our pre-primordial covenant with Allah SWT; one in which we all acknowledged Him as Lord before incarnating.
This is the real reason for any marriage celebration, be it great or small, it really doesn’t matter. In marriage however, the byatt is continuually renewed and strengthened through various gestures of ‘touching’, one of which is holding hands. The repeated touching signifies and re-expresses something quite specific that transcends sensuality, and that is the pleasure and joy that is absolutely contingent upon both spouses honoring their obligations and rights that make house, 홈, bed and by extension, community, a most pleasant refuge of affectionate peace and security in concordant recognition of our submission to Allah.
Unfortunately, warfare rages in many homes, and to such extents that a truce must be called in order to cross over the wasted divide to enjoy a ‘little touch’. For many, the battles are little more than belligerence prosecuted to defend the traditional self-centered attrition of immature narcissists who pass for adults. Hence, the perversion of the pristine romance described above is a learned frame of mind that settles on the “self” with respect to imagined need gratification to the exclusion of Allah’s remembrance and the rights of the spouse.
Therefore did the Prophet say: “One cannot truly be a Muslim until he/she desires for their neighbor what they desire for themselves.” ― and in marriage your spouse is your nearest neighbor.
그럼에도 불구하고, almost all Holly/Bolly-wood theatrics, both on and off-screen, concern the romanticized mating that pays lip service to the remembrance of Allah. These modern comedia focus on homage paid to emotions and feelings rather than reason, and most often emphasize materialist ideations based on Humanism’s several forts built along the trench lines of the gender battle, even as the happy pair ride into neverland’s sunset.
I am writing this book because neverland’s path leads to an eternity that has two highways and the toll road to Paradise requires the fee of Islam. And yet, despite this fact of revelation, I see many Muslims trying to take a by-pass road without paying the toll. Since “marriage is half of our deen,” I think toll needs to be paid honorably, but first it must be understood a bit more clearly if we are to avoid the road to perdition.
Wasalaam,
dr omar