US Dollars Gaza Mannen Aangeboden to Wed Weduwen van de martelaren
door Ann on Jan.16, 2010, tijdens polygamie in de media
Gas, Maart 24 (Xinhua) — De islamitische beweging Hamas heeft Gaza mannen aangemoedigd om te trouwen “een weduwe van een martelaar” met een beloning van 3,000 VS. dollars voor elk, maar het project leidde tot kritiek van pro-groepen vrouwen, Volgens een Hamas-activist vrouw dinsdag.
Nadia Nasser vertelde de pers dat de cash beloning ” is to encourage the youths marry women who lost their husbands by the Israeli army fire.”
”Het project is gericht op het verstrekken van een stabiel leven voor de weduwen, met name de jongeren die hun man verloren dagen of weken na het huwelijk,” Nasser zei, toe te voegen “this is the best way to protect the Muslim women.”
In december en januari, Israël voerde een ongekend offensief in de Gazastrook, het doden van meer dan 1,300 Palestijnen. Over 43 procent van de slachtoffers waren vrouwen en kinderen en de rest waren mannen, de meeste van hen jongeren.
However, de Hamas-project leidde tot kritiek van pro-groepen vrouwen. Samira Abdel Aleem, de directeur van de vrouw zei dat het comites “degrades the dignity of the Palestinian woman who always sacrificed alongside the man.”
”De vrouw heeft het recht om haar man te kiezen,” Abdel Aleem zei, eisen van de autoriteiten om de persoonlijke status van wet te wijzigen en het verbod op de polygamie.
Hamas zei degenen die gebruik willen maken van het project te krijgen moet fiscaal kunnen “providing for two wives or more and must be ready to look after the children of the new wife.”
Ook moet worden besteed aan de morele en religieuze principes en bieden “a private place for the new wife.”
Krediet voor de bovenstaande info: 2009-03-24 10:28:04 GMT2009-03-24 18:28:04 (Peking Tijd) Xinhua Engels
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16 januari, 2010 op 7:00 PM
I strongly disagree with the martyr stuff. Allah tells us in Quran not to kill ourselves. Inocent people are being killed as well as Believers.
In, evenwel, like the requirements that men should meet to take advantage of the cash reward to marry widows:
.Be fiscally capable of Providing for two wives or
more
.Be ready to look after the children of the new wife
.Be committed to the moral and religious principles
.Provide a private place for the new wife
I don’t know how any Muslim man could purport that he follows the sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), and not provide each of his wives separate dwellings. If Muslim men can’t afford to house the wives in separate dwellings due to the high cost of housing in 2010, then they shouldn’t have more than one wife-simple. The excuse that the women prefer it that way is unacceptable. It’s not the way of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). It’s an innovation.
What do you think about the housing situation for Muslim men, practicing polygamy?
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January 17th, 2010 op 3:27 PM
Interesting. In terms of the housing situation, I’m not sure. I’m trying to place myself in that situation. Having only been in that situation briefly myself, I’m not so sure how I would want to play it out long term.
Would I want to go without seeing my husband for a few days at a time, or would I want to watch him have this attraction and be intimate with another woman? I’m not referring to sex although knowing that is going on would be tough. I mean kisses etc….
I’m sure that the women cannot make the decision as to what they want and/or can tolerate can they?
January 17th, 2010 op 4:56 PM
knowing me, I wouldn’t be able to handle seeing my husband slapping his other wife’s behind, or them making goo goo eyes at each other, hinting they sneak off to the bedroom. I could envision myself outside their bedroom door at night when it’s not my turn, trying to easedrop on the conversation. I certainly don’t want to hear any love making coming from that room. What I don’t know, see, or hear, can’t hurt me. So with that said, I’d rather go without seeing my husband for days than subject myself to that mental and emotional anguish.
Alex knows better than to approach me with the suggestion that he, Carolinah, and me live in the same house. Alex always knew that wasn’t Islamically correct.
I think Muslim women settle for cohabiting with their husband’s other wife out of a desire to have a husband that they wouldn’t have otherwise. Why else would they not want their own home? I could understand a woman having her own home and not requiring her husband to contribute, as he doesn’t have the money. She relinquishes her rights. I can’t see multiwives in a polygamous marriage cohabiting in Islam.
I like your question, Live, Laugh, Love and I thank you for sharing your thoughts on the subject. Like you, I’m interested in knowing what more readers out there think or feel about it.
Live, Laugh, Love, you asked, “I’m sure that the women cannot make the decision as to what they want and/or can tolerate can they?
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January 17th, 2010 op 5:23 PM
That’s just it. The situation you described is one I ended up in and it was without a shadow of a doubt beyond horrifying.
I’ve grown a lot since then but I still have thoughts that if placed in that situation again I would react the same way as I did before. I was so hurt from it the first time with the way hubby and other wife acted during that brief period of time towards each other and their disregard towards me and my feelings.
I do know though that there are women out there that can handle and do love the poly lifestyle and would not trade anything with living in the same house together with their sister wives and husband.
January 17th, 2010 op 5:50 PM
I’ve grown a lot too, but I don’t think there’s that much growing in the world for me. God doesn’t put a burden on us more than we can bear, we put the extra burden on ourselves. A man and a wife were meant to live together in peace and tranquility. I think that can happen between a Muslim husband and a wife, living together with their children in their own home-just the husband and one wife. How could there be peace and tranquility otherwise?
Zonder twijfel, I could imagine how horrified you were to have that stuff going on in your face.
Like you, I know there are men and women who are very content all living together in polygamous marriages. I don’t know much about their religion, but I think it’s done with a higher purpose in mind, which helps them adapt and seek peace and I respect that.
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