Most people want to know how to have success in not only a polygamous marriage, but life in general. The key to success is the same for one who lives a polygamous life as it is for anyone else. The solution is one for all. One must have the correct belief in God to have success. Many people have misled many of Muslims. Many people have fed Muslims wrong information and, as a result, they are suffering.
A Muslim whose religion (way of life) is Islam must believe in the One and only God, Allah, who has no partners and nothing and no one is equal to him. A person must believe in all of Allah’s Prophets who were merely servants raised to honor and Allah gave them all a message. He gave them all the same message.
A person must believe in all of Allah’s Books that contain Allah’s words that Allah indirectly revealed to all His messengers. Allah did not authorize any books other than the ones He revealed to His Prophets.
The last Prophet that Allah sent to us was the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH – peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and the last book that Allah sent was the Holy Quran. There will be no more Prophets to come and no more Books after the Quran. The Sunnah, way of life of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), was the Holy Quran.
The cure for all ills and the key for a successful life, whether polygamous or not, is in the Holy Quran. Allah teaches through it and He guides people by way of it. The prerequisite is that one reads the Quran to seek knowledge for no other reason than to learn how to serve and worship Allah. A person must read the Holy Quran with sincerely to learn and live it, not to dispute with or to discredit anyone.
A person should read the Quran in any language that he or she is capable of reading it in. Do not let anyone tell anyone that they must read the Quran in Arabic to get the correct understanding, as it is an untruth. Allah did not make everyone Arab speaking. He did not make everyone of the same language, color or race. Allah guides by way of the Holy Quran whom He decides to guide – those who seek His guidance, seeking to obtain a purified heart.
The Muslim communities worldwide are in a state of turmoil and utter chaos. Muslims are killing Muslims. Muslims have divided themselves into sects, which Allah has ordered us not to do. We are one brotherhood. Why is the condition of Muslims in the sad state that it is in when Allah has promised the Believers victory, that they will prevail and be triumphant?
One must accept all of Allah’s prophets mentioned in the Holy Quran. One Prophet is no better than the other. Allah raised all the Prophets to honor. Most Muslims today acknowledge only one Prophet (the Prophet Muhammad PBUH), and dismiss all the others. They have wronged their own souls in doing so. Many Muslims have wrong their own souls by making others, in particular Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), more important than Allah, or have made the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) Allah’s equal or Allah’ partner.
They have made books, compiled by man over 200 years after the Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) death, equal to the Holy Quran (the words of Allah), and have dismissed all of Allah’s other Books (words of Allah), for instance, the Torah/Law revealed to Prophet Moses (PBUH) and the Gospel revealed to Prophet Jesus (PBUH). How do anyone expect to have any success in life when they disobey Allah, and have given him partners, which is shirk, an unforgivable sin?
Allah tells us that most people do not believe in Him without associating partners with Him. They worship others besides Him as equal to Him. There is more material available on the internet and in bookstores about one of Allah’s Messengers/Prophets (Prophet Muhammad – PBUH) than there is about Allah. Most Muslims mention the Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) name more than they mention Allah. They can tell you about what is in other books, but don’t know what is in the Holy Quran.
Most Muslims ignore all of Allah’s Prophets other than the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and I don’t know why it is. Some Prophets were of Jewish origin. Perhaps the Arabs only wanted to acknowledge a Prophet who was an Arab, as they have a hatred for Jews. Many Arabs hate Jews and many Jews hate Arabs. Perhaps it is because the Arabs want to believe or believe they are the “chosen ones.” Whatever the reason, the fact is: They are misleading many people, including most Muslims by having them think Islam is all about only the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), and the books (not Allah Books) that they have put together.
Most Muslims cannot see what is happening. Allah explains it in saying they are “deaf, dumb and blind”. They cannot see and it’s not their eyes that cannot see. They follow the lusts of their hearts and they are astray and they don’t know it. They cannot see it. Only Believers can see.
Allah tells us it in the Holy Quran – in just a few ayat (and there are more) as follows:
“And most of them believe not in Allah without associating (other as partners) with Him!”
Quran: Surah 12, Ayah 106
“Yet there are men who take (for worship) others besides Allah, as equal (with Allah): They love them as they should love Allah. But those of Faith are overflowing in their love for Allah. If only the unrighteous could see, behold, they would see the penalty: that to Allah belongs all power, and Allah will strongly enforce the penalty.”
Quran: Surah 2, Ayah 165
“Verily We have brought the Truth to you: but most of you have a hatred for Truth.”
Quran: Surah 43, Ayah 78
“Then the Messenger will say: “O my Lord! Truly my people took this Qur’an for just foolish nonsense.”
Quran: Surah 25, Ayah 30
To have success in a polygamous marriage or simply in life itself, read the Quran in any language you can read it in. Read it with sincerity and ask Allah to guide you and teach you. Don’t let anyone discourage you. Allah teaches. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Allah is All Powerful, All Knowing and much, much more. Put your faith and trust in Allah and in nothing and no one else.
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