ABD Doları Şehitler Çar Widows için Gazze Men Açılan
tarafından Ann Jan.16 üzerinde, 2010, sırasında Medyada çok eşlilik
GAZA, Mart 24 (Xinhua) — İslamcı Hamas hareketinin Gazze erkekler evlenmek için teşvik etti “şehit dul” bir ödül ile 3,000 ABD. her biri için dolar, ama proje yanlısı kadınlar tarafından eleştiri gruplar yol açtı, Bir Hamas kadın aktivist Salı göre.
Nadia Nasır basına yaptığı açıklamada, nakit ödül olduğunu ” gençlerin İsrail ordusu ateş kocalarını kaybetmiş kadınlar evlenmek teşvik etmektir.”
”Proje dullar için istikrarlı bir yaşam sunmayı hedefliyor, özellikle kim evlendikten sonra eşlerinin gün veya hafta kayıp genç,” Nasır dedi, ekleme “Bu Müslüman kadınları korumak için en iyi yoldur.”
Aralık ve Ocak ayında, İsrail'in Gazze Şeridi'nde benzeri görülmemiş bir saldırı yapılmış, daha öldü 1,300 Filistinliler. Hakkında 43 Kurbanların yüzde kadınların ve çocukların, geri kalanı ise erkekti, Çoğu gençler.
Ancak, Hamas yanlısı kadınlar tarafından eleştiri gruplar yol açtı proje. Samira Abdel Aleem, Kadın Komitelerin Direktörü dedi o “alçaltır her zaman adam yanında kurban Filistinli kadının onuru.”
”Kadın kocasının seçme hakkına sahiptir,” Abdel Aleem dedi, kişisel statü yasasını değiştirme yetkililer talep ve çok eşlilik yasadışı ilan.
Hamas kim projenin avantajı almak isteyenler mali yeteneğine sahip olması gerektiğini söyledi “ve iki karısı ya da daha fazla sağlayan yeni eşi çocuk bakmak hazır olmalıdır.”
Aynı zamanda ahlaki ve dini ilkelerine bağlı olması gerekir ve sağlamak “yeni karısı için özel bir yer.”
Kredi yukarıdaki bilgi için: 2009-03-24 10:28:04 GMT2009-03-24 18:28:04 (Beijing Zaman) Xinhua İngilizce
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Salaamu Alaikum gibi!
Hoş geldiniz Polygamy 411! Bizim ev Müslümanlar ve Müslüman olmayanlar için. Çok eşlilik hakkında konuşmak isteyen herkes için, ya da çok eşli bir evlilik ya da herkes bir girmeyi düşünen. Biz şirket olmak gibi. Rahatına ve yorum bırakarak tartışmaya katılmaya. Biz bir süre sonra tekrar ve sık sık burada görmeyi bekliyoruz.
seyahat 4 daha az!
16 Ocak, 2010 üzerinde 7:00 PM
I strongly disagree with the martyr stuff. Allah tells us in Quran not to kill ourselves. Inocent people are being killed as well as Believers.
Içinde, ancak, like the requirements that men should meet to take advantage of the cash reward to marry widows:
.Be fiscally capable of Providing for two wives or
more
.Be ready to look after the children of the new wife
.Be committed to the moral and religious principles
.Provide a private place for the new wife
I don’t know how any Muslim man could purport that he follows the sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), and not provide each of his wives separate dwellings. If Muslim men can’t afford to house the wives in separate dwellings due to the high cost of housing in 2010, then they shouldn’t have more than one wife-simple. The excuse that the women prefer it that way is unacceptable. It’s not the way of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). It’s an innovation.
What do you think about the housing situation for Muslim men, practicing polygamy?
Bu açık bir evdir. Gerek vurmak. Sadece gel.
January 17th, 2010 üzerinde 3:27 PM
Ilginç. In terms of the housing situation, I’m not sure. I’m trying to place myself in that situation. Having only been in that situation briefly myself, I’m not so sure how I would want to play it out long term.
Would I want to go without seeing my husband for a few days at a time, or would I want to watch him have this attraction and be intimate with another woman? I’m not referring to sex although knowing that is going on would be tough. I mean kisses etc….
I’m sure that the women cannot make the decision as to what they want and/or can tolerate can they?
January 17th, 2010 üzerinde 4:56 PM
knowing me, I wouldn’t be able to handle seeing my husband slapping his other wife’s behind, or them making goo goo eyes at each other, hinting they sneak off to the bedroom. I could envision myself outside their bedroom door at night when it’s not my turn, trying to easedrop on the conversation. I certainly don’t want to hear any love making coming from that room. What I don’t know, see, or hear, can’t hurt me. So with that said, I’d rather go without seeing my husband for days than subject myself to that mental and emotional anguish.
Alex knows better than to approach me with the suggestion that he, Carolinah, and me live in the same house. Alex always knew that wasn’t Islamically correct.
I think Muslim women settle for cohabiting with their husband’s other wife out of a desire to have a husband that they wouldn’t have otherwise. Why else would they not want their own home? I could understand a woman having her own home and not requiring her husband to contribute, as he doesn’t have the money. She relinquishes her rights. I can’t see multiwives in a polygamous marriage cohabiting in Islam.
I like your question, Canlı, Gülmek, Love and I thank you for sharing your thoughts on the subject. Senin gibi, I’m interested in knowing what more readers out there think or feel about it.
Canlı, Gülmek, Aşk, you asked, “I’m sure that the women cannot make the decision as to what they want and/or can tolerate can they?
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January 17th, 2010 üzerinde 5:23 PM
That’s just it. The situation you described is one I ended up in and it was without a shadow of a doubt beyond horrifying.
I’ve grown a lot since then but I still have thoughts that if placed in that situation again I would react the same way as I did before. I was so hurt from it the first time with the way hubby and other wife acted during that brief period of time towards each other and their disregard towards me and my feelings.
I do know though that there are women out there that can handle and do love the poly lifestyle and would not trade anything with living in the same house together with their sister wives and husband.
January 17th, 2010 üzerinde 5:50 PM
I’ve grown a lot too, but I don’t think there’s that much growing in the world for me. God doesn’t put a burden on us more than we can bear, we put the extra burden on ourselves. A man and a wife were meant to live together in peace and tranquility. I think that can happen between a Muslim husband and a wife, living together with their children in their own home-just the husband and one wife. How could there be peace and tranquility otherwise?
Without a doubt, I could imagine how horrified you were to have that stuff going on in your face.
Senin gibi, I know there are men and women who are very content all living together in polygamous marriages. I don’t know much about their religion, but I think it’s done with a higher purpose in mind, which helps them adapt and seek peace and I respect that.
Bu açık bir evdir. Gerek vurmak. Sadece gel.