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Finances and Polygamy

When a woman thinks about marrying a man who has a wife already, she should take a good look at her finances and polygamy before the marriage. It is so that she will know how much she will need from her potential spouse. She will need to negotiate financially with him. She should have a…

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How to Tell Children about Polygamy

Many parents wonder how to tell children about polygamy when the child’s father becomes polygamous. “Flower” who is a commentator here at polygamy 411 wrote a reply that is an excellent sample of how a parent can simplify the process. She related the following: “I just wanted to touch on your issue with how to…

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How to Feel Better about Polygamy

Most wives want to know how to feel better about polygamy when their marriages are polygamous. First, they need to give Allah all of their attention. A wife can’t do it if she focuses on her husband and his other wife. Not surprisingly, many don’t know what it means. They think that they must distance…

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October 2017 Discussions

Welcome to our October 2017 discussions. Simply jump right in and share your experiences or thoughts about polygamy in Islam. What’s on your mind?

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Pay No Attention to Others

The best way to adapt to a polygamous lifestyle is to pay no attention to others. Don’t care what they say or think about you. After all, what does it matter what they say or think about you? You can’t get everyone to like you. Generally, people like those who are like them. They think…

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September 2017 Discussions

Welcome to our September 2017 discussions. Simply jump right in and share your experiences or thoughts about polygamy in Islam. What’s on your mind?

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2 Reasons Wives Have Problems

This article addresses 2 reasons wives have problems in polygamous marriages. One is that they give Allah part-time worship. In the Quran, Allah warns Muslims not to do it. Some Muslims pray to Him only when life gets difficult or when a misfortune or adversity happens to them. It is an example of what part-time…

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Do Polygamous Men Abuse Their Wives

Often we hear that polygamous men abuse their wives and are unjust to them. Do Polygamous men abuse their wives? First, you tell me; do monogamous men abuse their wives? The answer to both questions is, yes. Some do. There are all kinds of men, and they are in all types of marriages and relationships.…

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August 2017 Discussions

Welcome to our August 2017 discussions. Just jump right in and share your experiences or thoughts about polygamy in Islam. What’s on your mind?

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Polygamy and the Damsel in Distress

I have a problem with the polygamy and the damsel in distress or what some call the “woman in need” theory. Usually, someone uses those phrases when she speaks about a woman who married her husband in the order of 2nd, 3rd or 4th. Many have embraced the idea that polygamy is for a certain…

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