Husbands Treat Wives Unfairly in Polygamy

Some have said that some husbands treat wives unfairly in polygamy. So, what should a wife do when, in her mind, her polygamous husband is not fair and just to her? First, what do the wife base her allegation on? The husband may think he is “just” to his wives while they think he is…

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14 Year Old Kills Polygamous Husband

14 year old kills Polygamous husband in Nigeria. The authorities accused Wasila Tasi’u, of lacing a meal with rat poisoning that killed her 35-year-old polygamous husband and three other people. Wasila’s marriage was a couple of weeks old when the murder happened. Her parents had forced her to marry the 35-year-old man. 14 year old…

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Polygamous Marriages-Part 3

In Polygamous Marriages-Part 3 we will look further at how husbands can have peace in polygamous marriages. We first need to know Allah created us to live in tranquility with our spouses. Allah says, “And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility…

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Polygamous marriages-Part 2

In how husbands can have peace in polygamous marriages-part 2, I’ll continue to talk about happiness. I’ve already said husbands cannot make themselves, their wives, or anyone happy. Allah makes us happy or not. Husbands must come to know that women all have their own temperament. They have their own wants and desires. No two…

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Polygamous Marriages-Part 1

In polygamous marriages-part 1 we will talk about polygamy as it relates to men. We have discussed women and how being in polygamous marriages affects them. We haven’t dealt  much with men and how they make out in this type of marriage. Wives often feel alone and want to talk about the problems they have…

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Should a Wife Detach from Her Husband

Should a wife detach from her husband, so that she could grow nearer to Allah? Problems arise when a woman loves her husband way too much. So, exactly what is too much? If a wife loves her husband more than she loves Allah, then it is too much. A wife needs to love Allah more…

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Some Husbands Tell Lies

Some husbands tell lies and In doing so, they cause many problems in polygamous marriages. It sets the stage for how the marriages will be. Usually, the men lie to convince women to join existing marriages and become second wives. They use the art of persuasion. In lying, they usually portray the first wife in…

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Wives Suffer Anxiety

Many wives suffer anxiety in polygamous marriages. Some have asked why so many of them suffer, and are in so much pain when they are in such marriages. The order that the wives married their husbands in doesn’t matter. They all experience pain or anxiety. Some wives experience pain that is heart-wrenching, excruciating, and unbearable.…

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Polygamous Husband has Sex Pics

What happens when a polygamous husband has sex pics of one or more of his wives on his cellphone? First, it could be harmful to the marriage. There is a chance that others could see them. The pics (photos) may fall into the hands of those who shouldn’t have them. Furthermore, they could end up…

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Polygamy and the Hidden Truths of Shirk

Let us take a look at polygamy and the hidden truths of shirk. Most people do not know what shirk is, let alone its hidden truths. It’s important to have a clear understanding of what it is. Shirk is to make someone or something equal to Allah or to give Allah a partner. Doing so…

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