Living Polygamy the Right Way

Is there such a thing as living polygamy the right way? If so, what is the right way? Many women say that the men aren’t doing polygamy right. So, what is right? It’s what we must ask ourselves. For one thing, we know a husband should be kind and just to his wives. In fact,…

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Should She Obey Her Polygamous Husband?

Should she obey her polygamous husband? Some Muslim men say to their wives, something like, ‘you’re not being an obedient wife.’  Note that there is instruction in the Quran for a wife to obey her husband. On the other hand, a wife should know that Allah says do not obey anyone who is negligent in…

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Best Wife in Polygamy

Who is the best wife in polygamy? Women who are 2nd, 3rd or 4th wives fascinate many. Others have a strong dislike for them. I used to think there was a difference between 1st wives and women who married their husbands in the order of 2nd, 3rd or 4th. My way of thinking changed when…

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Men Engage Unjustly in Polygamy

Do you know how some men engage unjustly in polygamy? I’m sure you do. Just from listening to commentators here at polygamy 411, I know how they do it. Many of the men are so busy trying to get what they want, when they want it and how they want it. It’s to the point…

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Danger of Marrying Pakistani Men

The danger of marrying Pakistani men is that many of them want to marry foreign women for personal gain. Don’t buy what they are selling. They will do anything and say anything to marry a foreign woman for a Green card and Citizenship. Sadly, their deception knows no bounds. The foreign women out there need…

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Sad Because Her Husband May Become Polygamous

It is quite common for a wife to say that she is sad because her husband may become polygamous. I’m not surprised. Probably every woman who thinks about polygamy or is just beginning a journey in a polygamous marriage gets sad and depressed. The good news is that sadness doesn’t have to last. It should…

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Polygamy From An Islamic Viewpoint

We as Muslims should see polygamy from an Islamic viewpoint. Of course, it’s not always easy. Those people who aren’t Muslim or Muslims who aren’t believers can influence us in a negative way. After all, we all don’t live in communities made up of only Muslims who are believers. It’s easy to talk about polygamy…

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Polygamy and the Prophets of Allah

When it comes to polygamy and the prophets of Allah, there is a lot that is not known. We know that Abraham, Jacob, and Muhammad (PBUH) were a few who were polygamous. Some say Prophet Solomon (PBUH) was, as well. Then again, I’m not aware of all the Prophets who engaged in it. For one thing,…

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A Wife with Children and a Polygamous Husband

I often wonder what life is like for a wife with children and a polygamous husband. How do they cope when they are at home caring for the children, all the while the husbands are with their other wives? I’m sure it is a difficult task, and they feel all alone. Perhaps it is a…

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What Muslim Women Need to Know About Polygamy

I’ve written what Muslim women need to know about polygamy to try to save them surprise and heartache. Most Muslim women know that Allah allows polygamy for men. However, not many think that it will happen to them. Some speak to the men about it before they marry. Basically, they want to make sure the…

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