Do Not Become a Secret Wife

My advice to any woman who is considering marriage to a Muslim man is do not become a secret wife. She will regret it, and there is no way that she will be happy. It will feel like it’s her worse nightmare. First, there is no reason whatsoever for a woman to marry, and her…

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Things to Know About Polygamy

There are things to know about polygamy in Islam that will make the life of a wife easier, if she is in such a marriage. First, she needs to let go of yesterday. Yesterday is long gone, but what is happening today is real. There is no need for a wife to dwell in the…

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Accept a Polygamous Marriage or Divorce

When it comes to polygamy in Islam, most wives have something in common from the start. They must decide whether to accept a polygamous marriage or divorce. It becomes a big deal for a wife to make her intention about what she should do. It’s because she is quite confused. It has turned her world…

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Things to Know about Divorce in Islam

Among the things to know about divorce in Islam as it relates to polygamy is that we at the polygamy 411 blog do not tell any woman that she must stay in a polygamous marriage. It’s important to note that there are women who love their husbands and want to stay married to them, despite…

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Desires Impact Wives

Let’s talk about how desires impact wives in polygamous marriages. In fact, I think it’s correct to say that desires are the cause of most of the problems in it. It’s important to note that most people think having desires are good. It’s because we all have them. But there are bad desires, as well.…

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She is Unhappy Living in Polygamy

She is unhappy living in polygamy. We hear it often about wives in polygamous marriages. So, why do so many of the wives feel that way? Furthermore, what could they do to get to a better place? What should they do to feel good in the marriage? The wife says that she’s been doing all…

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Wives Can Be Happy in Polygamy

Wives can be happy in polygamy when they stop complaining about their lives. A wife may complain about what the other wife gets that she doesn’t have. For instance, it could be time with the husband or material things. When it comes to material things, the wife who is a Muslim and is a believer…

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Some Women Will Not Accept Polygamy

Some women will not accept polygamy because they say they did not grow up that way. Let me say that most women whether they were born and raised “Muslim” or are reverts to Islam didn’t grow up embracing polygamy. It wasn’t part of their lives. For those who say polygamy is new to them, I…

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Adjusting to Marriage and Polygamy

Adjusting to marriage and polygamy is difficult for spouses. Yet, some see marriage and polygamy as the same. So, how are they different? First, let me mention that the wife who married the man first may say that he pays attention to the one whom he married second more than he does to her. Perhaps…

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Should I Love My Polygamous Husband Less

It is common for a wife to ask: Should I love my polygamous husband less? It’s a good question. However, to answer it, one must know what it means to love someone not as much. Can it be done? First, for the love to subside, one ought to know that a person can’t simply say:…

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