Do Polygamous Men Abuse Their Wives

Often we hear that polygamous men abuse their wives and are unjust to them. Do Polygamous men abuse their wives? First, you tell me; do monogamous men abuse their wives? The answer to both questions is, yes. Some do. There are all kinds of men, and they are in all types of marriages and relationships.…

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Polygamy and the Damsel in Distress

I have a problem with the polygamy and the damsel in distress or what some call the “woman in need” theory. Usually, someone uses those phrases when she speaks about a woman who married her husband in the order of 2nd, 3rd or 4th. Many have embraced the idea that polygamy is for a certain…

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Pakistani Culture and Polygamy

The former US First Lady Michelle Obama sent me a form generated email the other day, and it caused me to think about Pakistani culture and polygamy. It wished Malala Yousafzai a happy birthday. Perhaps you remember that Malala was the young Pakistani girl who the Taliban shot in the head in Pakistan some years…

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A Wife Who Has A Diseased Heart

Every so often, I speak about a wife who has a diseased heart, not a particular wife, but any wife. Let me explain what I mean by it with regard to a wife who is in a polygamous marriage. Particularly, I base it on what Allah says in the Holy Quran. He says anyone who…

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5 Important Things About Pakistani Men

Meena, a commentator at Polygamy 411, shared with us 5 important things about Pakistani men. She based it on the true story of her involvement with one. He was her boyfriend. Her story is as follows: I have been dating a Pakistani man for almost a year and half now. It’s been an interesting journey…

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Do Muslims Idealize Polygamy

Do Muslims idealize polygamy? Meaning, do the men want to become polygamous because the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was? On this blog, a commentator said men want to be like the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). I wouldn’t say that Muslims use Allah’s Prophet, his wives,and the Quran to glorify polygamy as the writer suggested. Although some men…

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