Tackle Issues about Polygamy in Islam

There is a need to tackle issues about polygamy in Islam. It begins with Muslim women in the communities. Many of them look upon women in polygamous marriages negatively. For Muslims to help change how people see polygamy in Islam, they must change how they talk about the topic. For beginners, they need to stop…

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Desires Impact People in Polygamous Marriages

Let’s talk about how desires impact people in polygamous marriages. In fact, I think it’s correct to say that desires are the cause of most of the problems in it. It’s important to note that most people think having desires are good. It’s because we all have them. But there are bad desires, as well.…

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She is Unhappy Living in Polygamy

She is unhappy living in polygamy. We hear it a lot about wives in polygamous marriages. It leads one to ask why so many of the Muslim wives feel that way. Furthermore, what can a wife do to get to a better place of feeling good in the marriage? The wife says that she’s been…

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Wives Can Be Happy in Polygamy

Wives can be happy in polygamy when they stop complaining about their lives. A wife may complain about what the other wife gets that she doesn’t have. For instance, it could be time with the husband or material things. When it comes to material things, the wife who is a Muslim and is a believer…

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Some Women Do Not Want to Accept Polygamy

Some women do not want to accept polygamy because they say they did not grow up that way. Let me say that most women whether they were born and raised “Muslim” or are reverts to Islam didn’t grow up embracing polygamy. It wasn’t part of their lives. For those who say polygamy is new to…

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Adjusting to Marriage and Polygamy is Difficult

Adjusting to marriage and polygamy is difficult for spouses. Yet, some see marriage and polygamy as the same. So, how are they different? In the first place, the wife who married first may say that her husband pays more attention to the one whom he married second than he does to her. Perhaps he does.…

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Should I Love My Polygamous Husband Less

It is common for a wife to ask: Should I love my polygamous husband less? It’s a good question. However, to answer it, one must know what it means to love someone not as much. Can it be done? First, for the love to subside, one ought to know that a person can’t simply say:…

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Are Women Who Are in Polygamous Marriages Good People

Let me tell you why I’ve asked the question: Are women who are in polygamous marriages good people? In most talk about polygamous marriages, most portray the wives (especially the wives who married first) as “good” and  depict the men as “bad”. The husband is usually viewed as the unjust one who causes his wives…

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Why Women Should Embrace Polygamy

A post that polygamy 411 received from a commentator, inspired me to write this article about why women should embrace polygamy. She asked about the meaning of a nightmare that she had in which her husband married another woman. He took on a second wife. She said that she woke up from her dream while…

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How She Can Make Her Polygamous Husband Happy

Sometimes a wife asks how she can make her polygamous husband happy. A wife may think that she must make her husband happy for him to continue to love her. She wants to please him especially if she wants him to love her more than he loves his other wife. It’s important for the wife…

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