Detachment Attracts Positive Results

detachment attracts positive results

Detachment attracts positive results when a woman loves her husband way too much. We need to love Allah more than we love our husbands. The law of detachment makes some sense to me when it comes to polygamy and Islam. Some wives may find detachment attracts positive results in their polygamous marriages.

A very dear, lovely friend and commentator at polygamy 411, “coco”, shared with us, “The Law of Detachment.”  I don’t know who wrote the article.

Maybe we could talk about how maybe detachment attracts positive results in polygamous marriages

Maybe we could talk about how maybe detachment attracts positive results in polygamous marriages. The article is as follows:

The Law of Detachment says that in order to successfully attract something, you must be detached to the outcome. If you are attached, you project negative emotions of fear, doubt, or craving which actually attracts the opposite of your desire. You are operating from a position of worry, fear and doubt rather than serenity, trust and faith. Of course there are times when negative emotions are meant to be felt and acted upon, but your dominant emotions should be positive ones. Let go and let God. .. because detachment is based on resting in the complete grace of God and knowing that He is always working everything through you and together for your greatest good. To be detached is to realize that everything good is from God and nothing at all is from you. It is God doing it through you and the other elements in your reality so there’s nothing to hold on to as your own, all you have to do is to have the right beliefs and let God do it. Ease and perfection of action depend entirely upon the degree in which we cease to depend upon the consciousness. You have to take your conscious mind off it in order to let your subconscious mind take over. The pilot and the autopilot cannot control the plane at the same time. You have to let go in order to let God take over.

Detachment attracts positive results in that one’s desires tend to manifest themselves

When you are detached, your desires will manifest much faster…. Attachment to anything will always create insecurity no matter how much of it you have. In fact, some of the people who have the most of what they want are the most insecure. Attachment to something makes you wonder if you will keep having it or if you may lose it. Insecurity causes unhappiness. The search for security and certainty is actually an attachment to the known… Uncertainty and the unknown is the field of all possibilities or pure potential. It is ever fresh, ever new, and always open to the creation of new manifestations. It is the realm of pure creativity and freedom. When you are attached, your intention gets locked into a rigid mindset and you lose the fluidity, the flexibility, and the spontaneity inherent in the field of pure potential.

Detachment attracts positive results. You don’t need to have to try to figure out the future.

When you experience uncertainty, you are on the right path so don’t give it up. You don’t need to have a complete and rigid idea of what you’ll be doing next week or next year, because if you have a very clear idea of what’s going to happen and you get rigidly attached to it, then you shut out a whole range of possibilities… All you have to do is state your intentions and desires and detach from the how and when they manifest. You may have the intention of going in a certain direction but between point A and point B there are infinite possibilities. With uncertainty factored in, you might change direction in any moment if you find a higher ideal, or something more worthwhile pursuing. You are also less likely to force solutions on problems, which enables you to stay alert to opportunities. One door seems closed, but there is another open. What you want can always come in another way… we need to stay alert to see whatever new opportunities life presents us. Have not a care in the world.

Detachment attracts positive results in that one can be free free spirited and carefree

Be free spirited and carefree. Have fun, play the game… Just have the attitude of doing something and then seeing what happens. Be in a position where you have nothing to lose. … It doesn’t matter whether the past experience was good or not. Keep moving on to the next one. It is an enlightened way of living your life. You have to let go and trust that life itself is taking you to the things you desire. As you let go and trust, you feel different, you radiate a different vibration to the world, and better things and experiences come to you. Again, the whole secret is in learning to simply let go… Let go of fear, doubt, worry, disappointment, and any other negative emotion that might make you feel low. You may have stepped out from the flow for a while and feel lost and break in momentum, but the flow is always there and you can step back into it again.”

I’d like to express my thanks to “coco” for sharing the above with us. All that we learn that does not go against Islam could help us have happier marriages. It is good to know. Maybe detachment attracts positive results, if we love our spouses less and love Allah more.

Thank you much, coco. I pray Allah keeps on giving you peace and blessings. I’d like to thank all the readers and writers who have joined us here. If anyone knows who wrote the “law of detachment”, please let us know. Let us know if you find detachment attracts positive results for you.

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  • anabellah

    November 20, 2014


    You did a good job copying and pasting the parts that didn’t conflict with Islam. I was impressed with the video. It’s short and sweet. I agree with you that it’s uplifting and inspirational. It encourages patience and acceptance. Nice!

  • coco

    November 20, 2014

    I LOVE seeing that you made a post regarding the law of detatchment 🙂 I really think this is a great reference to go to when your feeling uncertain or blue I know it helps me every single time as long as your positive and hold on to your patience you can’t go wrong! I did copy/paste portions that I thought wouldn’t clash with our Islamic beliefs. JazahkAllah for your prayers and I’ve missed you too!
    Much love sister :* xo

  • anabellah

    November 17, 2014


    I think it probably is the same. I wasn’t familiar with it until coco brought it to our attention here on the blog. What she wrote on the blog is what I posted. I didn’t know it was “Quantum Physics”. It sounds heavy. I know there are some authors who know Islam, but don’t label what they write as Islam, as they want to reach a larger audience.

    I’ve found that most of what I read of it that coco shared does not conflict with Islam.

  • Gail

    November 17, 2014

    I have listened to alot of Law of Attraction is that the same thing?
    I am very much into Quantum Physics.

  • anabellah

    November 16, 2014

    Brother Muhammad (Scot), Wa Alaikum As Salaam! Long time no hear from. It’s always nice when you stop in.

    I agree with you about “patience” (the ayah) and how it relates to what the author called, “The Law of Detachment.”

    I like listening to the video. I think it’s a cool, thought provoking video. I thank “coco” for sharing the excerpt with us. Insha Allah, she’ll stop back in again soon. I’ve missed her.

    Nice avatar you’ve got.

  • Muhammad (Scot)

    November 16, 2014

    Aslam o Alykum all,
    This detachment sound like to me be patience at all time.

    Allah(SWT) tells us in Quran 2:153
    O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allah is with the patient one.

    This has always worked for me.
    Allah (SWT).

  • anabellah

    November 9, 2014

    I found some good in the video. What I gathered from the video is that we chase material things such as wealth, clothes, houses, money, cars, etc., thinking we will be happy once we get them. When and if we get them we find, after a while, we still feel the same as we did before we got them. We feel no more secure with what we’ve received than we did when we were without. We’re always looking for and wanting more.

    We chase after something things we want. It’s because we’re caught up on the created thing and not the Creator. We rely on the known to get what we want. We don’t rely on the Creator; although we may say we do. We look to what we have in the bank or our pay check, or an inheritance or an investment or an Income Tax Refund etc. We rely on our limited knowledge and what we can see.

    We need to believe that Allah provides and He provides from means we may never have thought of or envisioned. The problem is hardly anyone believes. We only believe in what we can see or what is within our means. We limit ourselves. We don’t believe all things are possible. We believe in poverty that Satan threatens us with.

    We don’t need an idea of where we will get something. We chase security and what we chase runs from us. We suffer anxiety and undo stress due to an attachment to material things and relying on ourselves instead of relying on our Creator – Allah.

    Once we turn away from created things and turn to the Creator – Allah – we will find our lives improve. We’re content and at peace. We have joy in living. Allah will give us the things that we want and need, if those things are good for us. He says He gives the Believers good in this world and good in the Hereafter.

  • ummof4

    November 8, 2014

    As-salaamu Alaikum and hello to all,

    Ana, I agree with you. Take the good from this concept and leave the bad. The problem is that some people do not know enough about Islam to know what to take and what to leave.

    I feel uncomfortable about the universe that is mentioned several times.

    May Allah guide us all and protect us from falsehood and false beliefs. May He guide us only to the truth and to the true worship of Him alone.

  • anabellah

    November 8, 2014

    This is a nice video. Please note and remember well that the video shown below is not Islamic material. You have to be discerning. You must know what to extract from it that coincides with our teachings of Islam based on the Quran and what to leave behind that is not relevant. Nothing is absolute except Allah. Allah is the truth. Allah is the reality. You must know what Allah says in the Holy Quran and differentiate between what is truth and what is falsehood.