Evil acting co wives in polygamous marriages exist. You may have been one or may know one. It’s quite common to hear of women who have behaved as one. It doesn’t mean the wife will always be one. People can change.
There are wives who say they have few problems in polygamous marriages. Most of the time all is good until the co wife disrupts the others peace. The evil acting co wives in polygamous marriages do something that upsets the other wives. When a co wife does something that upsets the other wife, the other wife has allowed the co wife to control her.
Some evil acting co wives in polygamous marriages act to hurt the others knowingly
Some evil acting co wives know exactly what to do to upset the other wives. They do whatever they can to mess with the others. They want to jerk them around. It’s part of what being evil is all about.
Wives need to get to a place where they can ignore the evil acting co wives in polygamous marriages. I didn’t say to just ignore them. I said they need to get to a place where they can ignore them. It takes time and effort. It doesn’t happen overnight. The wives should ask Allah to let them ignore the other wives. Allah can make it happen.
Wives need to know when evil acting co wives are acting to get them to react. Even if they don’t know, but suspect the co wives are toying with them, they mustn’t fall for it. A wife must learn to ignore ignorance.
When wives say evil acting co wives in polygamous marriages are doing something to hurt or harm them, the wives think the co wives have power
When co wives plot something to harm the other wives or to jerk them around and upset their calm, they will get it back. The wives don’t have to react to what the co wives do. Once the wives stop reacting to what the co wives do, and leave it to Allah, they find calm. Remember that Allah sees and knows all things. When the wives master not reacting, what the evil acting co wives in polygamous marriages do won’t bother them any longer.
When wives say the evil acting co wives are doing something hurtful or harmful to them, they are saying the co wives have control or power over them. The wives need to know and believe that no harm or good can come to us unless Allah wills it. Wives must believe that Allah will protect them. Allah sees all that the evil acting co wives in polygamous marriages do. He sees what we all do. Those who plot evil will get evil back.
The wives dance to the beat of the evil acting co wives in polygamous marriages
Sometimes when wives are on what is known as a roller coaster ride, it’s because the wives dance to the evil acting co wives’ beat. The co wives do something to upset the other wives. The wives fall for it. They react exactly the way the evil acting co wives want them to. All may get calm for the wives for a while. The co wives then do something else to annoy or agitate them. When it happens, the wife mustn’t get upset. She needs to remember Allah, so that she will stay calm. Allah says the evil will hem in the author of it. When the evil acting co wives in polygamous marriages do evil to harm the other wives, the co wives will receive evil. It’s that simple.
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