To have a pain-free polygamous marriage a wife must do what Allah says. We all should do what Allah says. He says that when a thought from Satan comes to mind, we are to seek refuge in Him. Generally, we must remember Him. If the wife keeps thoughts in her head about her husband, his other wife or about he and his other wife or she thinks badly of herself, it’s not good.
It’s terrible to let her thoughts play out in her mind. When they do, she is not remembering Allah. Anytime something is on a person’s mind and it’s not Allah, she’s not remembering Allah.
For the most part, we can remember Allah and do our normal, everyday, regular activities. For instance, remember that Allah created the sun, the moon, the night and the day etc. Thank Allah for the rain, for giving us our sight, hearing, understanding, and for protecting us etc.
Additionally, remember Allah’s attributes or repeat his names. Reading the Quran is important to know what Allah expects of us. Simply think of Him. Furthermore, don’t neglect offering Salat (five daily prayers). Do whatever reminds us of Allah. Specifically, everything should remind us of Him
To have a pain-free polygamous marriage, a wife needs a pure soul
Allah purifies and purifies whom He wills. The only way a wife will win the battle and overcome her suffering is if Allah purifies her soul. He could purify it of the envy, jealously, hatred, selfishness, and all the other base emotions, but she has to worship Him for Him to do it.
To have a pain-free polygamous marriage, it’s not good enough for one to simply say she is Muslim. Nor is it good enough for a wife to ask Allah to remove the pain and suffering that she feels and she does nothing in return. It takes much more. Allah says have patience, persevere, pray, remember Him, and offer the five daily prayers (not 0,1,2,3, or 4, but all five of them). Those are just some of what He tells us to do.
So, how could a wife have a pain-free polygamous marriage?
Well, there is no quick fix. She must ask Allah to heal her. A wife must ask Him to relieve her of the suffering. Only He can relieve the pain.
Allah causes us to suffer so we could learn humility. It’s important to humble ourselves to Allah. A wife shouldn’t humble herself to her husbands or anyone other than Allah. Allah says He removes our pain. He purifies and He heals us.
In conclusion, remember that Allah’s promises are true… What He says will come to pass.
Read part one: Live in a Polygamous Marriage Pain-Free
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