Every woman who is in a polygamous marriage wants to know how to live polygamy in peace. Some women have a more difficult time in a polygamous marriage than others. We all are different. Husbands aren’t the same either. We all come from various walks of life, not to mention the cultural differences, as well.
To answer how to live polygamy in peace, there is a lot that we must consider. Not only is everyone not a Muslim, but some Muslims have non-Muslim spouses. Furthermore, some Muslims don’t even live Islam. There are Muslims who admit to not practicing their religion. So, with that said, how to live polygamy in peace is not an easy question to answer, especially when not everyone is on the same page.
I believe the only way to know how to live polygamy in peace is to know the meaning of life
The meaning of life is in the Holy Quran and no place else. Thus, it’s a waste of time to look for it elsewhere. The Quran is the road map to our journey’s end. All that we need to know is in it. It is a guide and a mercy for those who believe. It leads us out of the darkness and into the light. To read it is not to only say words. But one must see how it relates to us today, which it does.
Most women who are in a polygamous marriage are lost. They walk about blindly, feeling their way around. They don’t know what to do, and they look for help in all the wrong places.
The women ask their family and friends, many of whom are non-Muslims, for help. The people whom they ask don’t know the truth about our way of life, nor do they care to know. Only those who themselves don’t know the truth would ask others who don’t know for help. Many of the Muslims are of little help, as well. It’s because they don’t know what belief is all about. One can only learn it from the Holy Quran.
A Muslim woman will not know how to live polygamy in peace, if she asks those who do not know what is in the Quran. A person has to read the Quran to know what is in it. It’s important to realize that Allah teaches. She must ask Allah for understanding and for guidance. It’s the only way to become a believer.
I can tell you how to live polygamy in peace
If one does what I stated above, she will have peace. She will have it not only in a polygamous marriage, but in life itself. Moreover, she will have peace and contentment like never before. A wife in a polygamous marriage will live life with joy and happiness. Of course, she will have ups and downs and some days that are easier than others.
A Muslim will still be tested and tried. However, if she follows the advice above, she will win through in times of trouble, distress, and calamities. She will know to turn to Allah and not to created things for help. After all, Allah created us. Turn to the Creator. Most importantly, she must remember Allah, as Allah only remembers those who remember Him.
Life is beautiful when one depends on Allah. It goes without saying that a wife will come to like life, if she obeys Allah. She must like life for life to like her. A woman can have peace in a polygamous marriage. Most importantly she will have hope to enter Paradise. She won’t lose sight of what is most important. The next life is what really matters. This life is a probationary period. It is fleeting. Indeed, it is short. With it all said, now you have the answer to how to live polygamy in peace.
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