Mothers control the polygamous marriage of their sons. How is it so? A problem we hear of in polygamous marriages is that there are some husbands who listen to their mothers too much. The mother tell the son who to marry. It doesn’t matter if he wants to marry the person or not. He feels compelled to do it.
Mothers control the polygamous marriage of their sons by telling them who to marry, when to marry and when to give them grandchildren. When it comes to polygamous marriages, the mothers tell the sons to divorce wives, as well.
Mothers control the polygamous marriage of their sons in some countries, such as Pakistan
Some say that in the Pakistani culture children’s lives belong to their parents even when they are adults. All of the above mentioned happens when it comes to the sons and who the sons will marry. In Islam there is a saying, “Paradise is at the feet of the mother.” It is NOT in the Holy Quran. Many people believe it even though there is nothing in the Holy Quran to support it.
From what I’ve learned here at polygamy 411, Pakistani people program their children with the saying, “Paradise is at the feet of the mother.” The mothers use the saying to control the children. The mothers themselves probably believe the saying is true.
Mothers control the polygamous marriage of their sons by subtly teaching children to worship them
It goes against everything Islam is about. It’s disrespectful to Allah. Allah, in the Holy Quran, teaches the Oneness of God and that we should associate no one with Him. He has no partners, nor equals.
It’s the same with the saying that teaches women to worship their husbands for a chance to enter Paradise/Jannah. We all know of the many sayings and many go against Islam. Allah, in the Holy Quran, tells us everything we need to know. He tells us about children, parents and spouses. A lot of what some think is Islam is not.
No where in the Holy Quran does Allah tell children to worship their parents or wives to worship their husbands so they can enter Paradise. There is no middleman in Islam. No one has to go through anyone else to enter Paradise/Jannah. Worshiping a spouse or a parent is not a condition to enter Paradise/Jannah. The sayings, which are not in the Holy Quran, mislead people from the path of Allah.
Allah has told us all that we need to know, but people obviously don’t like what Allah says. They found sayings to support what they want to believe or want others to believe. Hence, there are very unhappy people in the world, as they worship others besides Allah, and can find no peace.
Allah orders us to just and kind treatment of our parents. He orders us to kind and just treatment of everyone, as long as they do not fight us for our faith. Being just and kind to people does not mean we become their servants. We aren’t suppose to live and die for them.
Our living, our dying, our prayers and our sacrifices should all be for Allah. We can respect and take good care of our parents without letting them control our lives. We belong to Allah, not to our parents. A parent does not own a child.
Mothers control the polygamous marriage of their sons based on wrong information that is self-satisfying
A very learned friend who is my guardian explained very nicely to me the meaning of the saying (not in the Holy Quran) that “Paradise is at the feet of the mother”. He said when the mother who is a Muslim/Believer has a child, the child grows up at her feet. She picks the child up and being a God-fearing and God-loving mother, she teaches the child Islam. She reads the Quran to the child. The child sees the mother performing wudu (washing for prayer) and offering the salat (prayers).
In time the child emulates the mother in her actions (wudu and salat). She reads the Quran, zikr and is kind and just, all of which the child sees. It’s the formative years that are the most important time for the child. What the child sees and experiences, during those years set the stage for the child to grow up being God-fearing and God-loving. The child becomes obedient to Allah and worships Him, as well. It’s beautiful.
Mothers control the polygamous marriage of their sons and hence the sons and the wives suffer
People have twisted so much about Islam. They reject Allah and His Books (the Holy Quran and the other Books that Allah mentions in the Holy Quran). They’ve turned their backs on Allah. They have thrown the Quran behind their backs. Hence, there are adult children who have made their mothers their Lord. Those children suffer the same as wives who have made their husbands their Lord suffer. It’s important that all Muslims read the Holy Quran. Allah will give the Muslim/believer understanding of it. Allah teaches the Muslim/Believer.
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