The Subtle Silent Enemy Shirk is a Sin

Here on the Polygamy 411 blog we’ve talked about “shirk” from time to time. The subtle silent enemy shirk is a sin that often affects spouses, especially in polygamous marriages. It is a sin that can lead a person to the Hellfire. So, what exactly is “shirk” and how do we know when we are…

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Pakistan Council Tackles Polygamy

The Pakistan Council tackles polygamy. It would like to change some of the laws. The Pakistan’s Council of Islamic Ideology met in March 2014 to discuss the matter. The National Assembly of Pakistan would have to approve the changes. The council wants to make it necessary for a husband to get his wife’s permission before he…

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Investigate a Co Wife in a Polygamous Marriage

A wife should investigate a co wife in a polygamous marriage. She should do it before she accepts the co wife into her life. Wives and husbands in polygamous marriages often ask if a wife must accept the co wife. Some questions include: Should they have a friendship with each other? Could a wife accept…

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What Does it Mean to Accept Polygamy?

What does it mean to accept polygamy? We have heard Muslims say we should accept polygamy as a way of life for us. Do we really know what to accept polygamy means? Before a person can accept polygamy the person must know the meaning of acceptance when it comes to a polygamous lifestyle. To accept…

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Favorite Wife in a Polygamous Marriage

The favorite wife in a polygamous marriage is what just about every wife wants to be to her husband. Therefore, it is not surprising that wives compete for the place of his favorite wife. Needless to say, wives fight for their husband’s love and affection. A wife wants her husband to prefer her above the…

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Who is the better wife

All Muslim women want to know who is the better wife in a polygamous marriage. Is it the 1st, 2nd, 3rd or 4th? When in such a marriage, the order that the wives married their husband in doesn’t matter. A woman who married a man who was already married has the same wants, needs, and goals…

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How to have a successful Polygamous Marriage

How to have a successful polygamous marriage is what some Muslims want to know. The key to success is the same for one who lives a polygamous lifestyle or a monogamous one. One must have the right belief in Allah to have success. Many people have misled Muslims. They’ve been fed wrong information. Due to…

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Some Polygamous Men Married for Lust

  Some polygamous men married for lust. It goes against the dictates in the Quran. It is wrong. Let’s explore the subject of lust and desires a bit. Are lust and desires good or bad? Lust and desires are not easy to understand. A learned man once said something very profound to me about lust…

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Allah Authorizes Polygamy

Allah authorizes polygamy for all men. When a person hears the word polygamy, most of the time he or she thinks of Mormons or Muslims. We know they are some of the people who live polygamous lives. Polygamy is not only for them. Allah authorizes polygamy for all men, not just for a certain group…

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Lopsided Polygamous Husbands

There will be lopsided polygamous husbands on the Day of Judgement, so some people say. I am sure all Muslims have heard it said. In fact, many Muslims say a husband will find himself lopsided or paralyzed on one side of his body on the Day of Judgement, if he is not fair and just…

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