Who is the better wife

All Muslim women want to know who is the better wife in a polygamous marriage. Is it the 1st, 2nd, 3rd or 4th? When in such a marriage, the order that the wives married their husband in doesn’t matter. A woman who married a man who was already married has the same wants, needs, and goals…

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How to have a successful Polygamous Marriage

How to have a successful polygamous marriage is what some Muslims want to know. The key to success is the same for one who lives a polygamous lifestyle or a monogamous one. One must have the right belief in Allah to have success. Many people have misled Muslims. They’ve been fed wrong information. Due to…

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Some Polygamous Men Married for Lust

  Some polygamous men married for lust. It goes against the dictates in the Quran. It is wrong. Let’s explore the subject of lust and desires a bit. Are lust and desires good or bad? Lust and desires are not easy to understand. A learned man once said something very profound to me about lust…

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Allah Authorizes Polygamy

Allah authorizes polygamy for all men. When a person hears the word polygamy, most of the time he or she thinks of Mormons or Muslims. We know they are some of the people who live polygamous lives. Polygamy is not only for them. Allah authorizes polygamy for all men, not just for a certain group…

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Lopsided Polygamous Husbands

There will be lopsided polygamous husbands on the Day of Judgement, so some people say. I am sure all Muslims have heard it said. In fact, many Muslims say a husband will find himself lopsided or paralyzed on one side of his body on the Day of Judgement, if he is not fair and just…

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Marry a Pakistani Man-Beware

If you marry a Pakistani man-beware. This is a sizzling hot topic. Many Pakistani men come to the US or the UK in search of a better life. To get that life, some seek out women in those countries for marriage. I will use the word “foreign” when I speak of the women who the…

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Polygamy and Non-Muslim Women

What is there to know about Muslim men, polygamy and non-Muslim women when their other wives are Muslim? When a husband is polygamous and has one wife who is Muslim and one who is not, he has done himself a huge injustice. The last article that I wrote was about Muslim men who marry non-Muslim…

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Muslim Men Marry Women Who Are Not Muslim

Some Muslim men marry women who are not Muslim. It happens in polygamous and monogamous marriages, and it’s not okay. They think that the non-Muslims who live today are “People of the Book”, but they aren’t. Muslims should marry Muslims. It doesn’t matter if the marriage is polygamous or monogamous. Allah does not give Muslims…

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October 2014 Discussions

We invite you to join our October 2014 discussions. Loosen up. Relax and let’s chat…

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Danger in Polygamous Marriages

There is danger in polygamous marriages, although there is much good in it. The good is certain to outweigh the bad. When a polygamous marriage seems as though it is bad, the husband, wife or both is the cause of it. It’s important for spouses to know that they may meet with dangerous conditions in…

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