Desires Impact Wives

Let’s talk about how desires impact wives in polygamous marriages. In fact, I think it’s correct to say that desires are the cause of most of the problems in it. It’s important to note that most people think having desires are good. It’s because we all have them. But there are bad desires, as well.…

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March 2017 Discussions

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She is Unhappy Living in Polygamy

She is unhappy living in polygamy. We hear it often about wives in polygamous marriages. So, why do so many of the wives feel that way? Furthermore, what could they do to get to a better place? What should they do to feel good in the marriage? The wife says that she’s been doing all…

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Wives Can Be Happy in Polygamy

Wives can be happy in polygamy when they stop complaining about their lives. A wife may complain about what the other wife gets that she doesn’t have. For instance, it could be time with the husband or material things. When it comes to material things, the wife who is a Muslim and is a believer…

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Some Women Will Not Accept Polygamy

Some women will not accept polygamy because they say they did not grow up that way. Let me say that most women whether they were born and raised “Muslim” or are reverts to Islam didn’t grow up embracing polygamy. It wasn’t part of their lives. For those who say polygamy is new to them, I…

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Adjusting to Marriage and Polygamy is Difficult

Adjusting to marriage and polygamy is difficult for spouses. Yet, some see marriage and polygamy as the same. So, how are they different? In the first place, the wife who married first may say that her husband pays more attention to the one whom he married second than he does to her. Perhaps he does.…

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February 2017 Discussions

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Should I Love My Polygamous Husband Less

It is common for a wife to ask: Should I love my polygamous husband less? It’s a good question. However, to answer it, one must know what it means to love someone not as much. Can it be done? First, for the love to subside, one ought to know that a person can’t simply say:…

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Are Women Who Are in Polygamous Marriages Good People

Let me tell you why I’ve asked the question: Are women who are in polygamous marriages good people? In most talk about polygamous marriages, most portray the wives (especially the wives who married first) as “good” and  depict the men as “bad”. The husband is usually viewed as the unjust one who causes his wives…

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Why Women Should Embrace Polygamy

A post that polygamy 411 received from a commentator, inspired me to write this article about why women should embrace polygamy. She asked about the meaning of a nightmare that she had in which her husband married another woman. He took on a second wife. She said that she woke up from her dream while…

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