April 2017 Discussions

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Things to Know about Divorce in Islam

Among the things to know about divorce in Islam as it relates to polygamy is that we at the polygamy 411 blog do not tell any woman that she must stay in a polygamous marriage. It’s important to note that there are women who love their husbands and want to stay married to them, despite…

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Desires Impact Wives

Let’s talk about how desires impact wives in polygamous marriages. In fact, I think it’s correct to say that desires are the cause of most of the problems in it. It’s important to note that most people think having desires are good. It’s because we all have them. But there are bad desires, as well.…

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March 2017 Discussions

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She is Unhappy Living in Polygamy

She is unhappy living in polygamy. We hear it often about wives in polygamous marriages. So, why do so many of the wives feel that way? Furthermore, what could they do to get to a better place? What should they do to feel good in the marriage? The wife says that she’s been doing all…

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Wives Can Be Happy in Polygamy

Wives can be happy in polygamy when they stop complaining about their lives. A wife may complain about what the other wife gets that she doesn’t have. For instance, it could be time with the husband or material things. When it comes to material things, the wife who is a Muslim and is a believer…

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Some Women Will Not Accept Polygamy

Some women will not accept polygamy because they say they did not grow up that way. Let me say that most women whether they were born and raised “Muslim” or are reverts to Islam didn’t grow up embracing polygamy. It wasn’t part of their lives. For those who say polygamy is new to them, I…

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Adjusting to Marriage and Polygamy

Adjusting to marriage and polygamy is difficult for spouses. Yet, some see marriage and polygamy as the same. So, how are they different? First, let me mention that the wife who married the man first may say that he pays attention to the one whom he married second more than he does to her. Perhaps…

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February 2017 Discussions

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Should I Love My Polygamous Husband Less

It is common for a wife to ask: Should I love my polygamous husband less? It’s a good question. However, to answer it, one must know what it means to love someone not as much. Can it be done? First, for the love to subside, one ought to know that a person can’t simply say:…

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