Are Women Who Are In Polygamous Marriages Good People

Let me tell you why I’ve asked the question: Are women who are in polygamous marriages good people? In most talk about polygamous marriages, most portray the wives (especially the wives who married first) as “good” and  depict the men as “bad”. The husband is usually viewed as the unjust one who causes his wives…

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Why Women Should Embrace Polygamy

A post that polygamy 411 received from a commentator, inspired me to write this article about why women should embrace polygamy. She asked about the meaning of a nightmare that she had in which her husband married another woman. He took on a second wife. She said that she woke up from her dream while…

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How She Can Make Her Polygamous Husband Happy

Sometimes a wife asks how she can make her polygamous husband happy. A wife may think that she must make her husband happy for him to continue to love her. She wants to please him especially if she wants him to love her more than he loves his other wife. It’s important for the wife…

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What Does it Take for a Wife to Accept Polygamy

What does it take for a wife to accept polygamy? Muslim women hear all too often that they should accept polygamy, as it is part of Islam. A woman may think that just because she didn’t divorce her polygamous husband and stayed in the marriage, she has accepted polygamy. Maybe she thinks if she tolerates…

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January 2017 Discussions

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My Co-Wife Disturbs My Peace Intentionally

My co-wife disturbs my peace intentionally. Now what should I do about it? Probably, it’s what every woman in a polygamous marriage has said at one time or another. It doesn’t matter if she married her husband in the order of 1st, 2nd, 3rd or 4th; she still has the problem. Wouldn’t it be nice…

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Husbands Who Promise not to Have Sex

There are polygamous husbands who promise not to have sex with some of their wives. Usually it happens when one wife tells the husband not to have sex with his other wife. Sometimes a woman will make it a condition that the man must abide by for her to accept being his second wife. Surprisingly,…

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Grateful Wife in a Polygamous Marriage

A Muslim woman needs to know what being a grateful wife in a polygamous marriage means. Some say a wife should show her gratitude to her husband for all the good that he does for her. The good includes sheltering, clothing, and feeding her etc. Basically, it’s maintaining her. However, gratitude goes way deeper than…

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Have a Pain-Free Polygamous Marriage

To have a pain-free polygamous marriage a wife must do what Allah says. We all should do what Allah says. He says that when a thought from Satan comes to mind, we are to seek refuge in Him. Generally, we must remember Him. If the wife keeps thoughts in her head about her husband, his…

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December 2016 Discussions

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