What happens when a polygamous husband has sex pics of one or more of his wives on his cellphone? First, it could be harmful to the marriage. There is a chance that others could see them. The pics (photos) may fall into the hands of those who shouldn’t have them. Furthermore, they could end up on the internet.
There is a 21st century new wave called ‘sexting.’ It’s when a person sends another an explicit sex message or pics by way of a cellular device such as a cellphone. Usually it’s teenagers who send them. Although, adults in polygamous marriages have been known to send sex pics, as well.
A husband and his wives could have serious problems, if his wife goes into his phone and finds pics of his other wife. It’s possible that she will keep the pics and sent them to his other wife to hurt her. She may send them to other people, as well.
When a polygamous husband has sex pics of one wife, the other wife who finds them may feel hurt
Problems may arise from ‘sexting’ when a husband is polygamous, meaning he has more than one wife. We have heard stories here at polygamy 411’s from commentators about how sexting has hurt their marriages. For instance, some have said that they found porn pics or sexually explicit pics on their husbands’ cellphones. The pics were of their husbands’ other wives or of the husbands.
In Islamic marriages, husbands and wives are to live with each other in peace and tranquility. When a polygamous husband has sex pics of his wives, it could ruin the peace and tranquility in the marriage. In other words, it could get in the way of them being happy. Polygamous marriages are difficult enough without adding a husband’s indiscretion to it. He should have enough sense to know a wife may look in his phone, if it’s lawful to do so or not. The lawfulness of looking in his phone is not what this article is about.
If a polygamous husband has sex pics on his phone, it’s a sign that he is not a sensible man
First of all, sex is a private matter between a husband and a wife. Furthermore, if he wants to foster a healthy, harmonious polygamous marriage, and protect his wives, he wouldn’t keep those type of pics on his phone. Men are responsible for protecting women. Subjecting them to possible sexual exposure makes him remiss in his duties.
Should the wife who learns that pics of her landed in the hands of the other wife have concerns? She should. Especially, she should because modesty is an important part of Islam for a Muslim. It is a sign that the woman who took the pics of herself and sent them by way of the air waves had no modesty. It’s a reflection of her character. She should know those pics could get out there to others.
When a polygamous husband has sex pics on his phone, there is danger that another person could re-text them
It’s not always just another wife who could finds the pics. In fact, the husband could lose his phone and whoever finds it may see the sex pics, as well. We never know in whose hands the pics will fall. Particularly, what will the person who finds the pics do with them? The person could place the pics on the internet. After which, they could go viral.
In conclusion, below is a video called, “The Dangers of Sexting.” It’s from, “It’s your call” with Lynn Dole. Her guests were an attorney; a clinical psychologist; and a NJ Assembly Woman. The Assembly Woman sponsored a bill to protects kids from the dangers associated with ‘Sexting.’ Basically, they spoke about ‘Sexting’ as it relates to teens, but some of what they said could apply to adults, as well.
The psychologist said some people text sex pics as an attention grabber. For instance, the girl intends to grab her boyfriend’s attention or she wants to grab a person’s attention whom she wants as a boyfriend. The psychologist said a teenager’s brain is not formed to understand the effects of their behavior. Apparently, it applies to some adults’ brains as well. They simply don’t understand consequences. The attorney said people who sex text do not respect their own physical person, nor their own privacy. It’s quite interesting.
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