Should a Wife Stay in a Polygamous Marriage

should a wife stay in a polygamous marriage

I’ve been asked the question: should a wife stay in a polygamous marriage at any and all cost? It’s wrong to believe that she should stay in such a marriage under all conditions and circumstances. It’s important to know that this blog does not try to get a woman to stay in a polygamous marriage that she finds no hope in and wants out of.

Polygamy in Islam is not the same as Polygamy that Mormons live. I’m sure all have heard of Mormon wives and children who had to flee and escape from a polygamous lifestyle. Certain Mormons think they have to fulfill the “Order” of a church. They think they have to obey a person who lives on this planet today, who calls himself their “Prophet.”

Should a wife stay in a polygamous marriage, if she can’t live in it in peace and tranquility

If a wife doesn’t want to stay in a monogamous or a polygamous marriage, she may seek a divorce. Islam does not force a woman to stay married. Allah permits divorce. It’s important to realize that there is no such thing as a woman being dammed to Hell if she leaves her marriage. Allah lets us know what will lead a person to the Hell Fire. Divorcing isn’t one of the things.

The Polygamy 411 blog and support group wants to help the woman who loves her husband and, therefore, wants to stay married to him. Perhaps, she needs to get past obstacles that are in her way to accepting her husband’s new lifestyle. The wife may have a hard time believing that her husband loves her and another woman at the same time. In addition, She’s concerned that she may have less wealth and less time with him. Basically, she does not like sharing him. Obviously, none of it makes her feel good.

Should a wife stay in a polygamous marriage that goes against her desires?

Some wives want to accept that Allah allows men to have up to four wives at a time. They want to embrace a polygamous marriage, if it becomes a part of their lives. Particularly, they do not want to go against Allah with their desire for monogamy.  Basically, a woman desire to have her husband all to herself.

It’s important to know that on this blog we do not try to get women to stay in marriages in which they suffer abuse. Furthermore, we don’t urge them to stay married to husbands who don’t love them. Undoubtedly, women want a husband to love them. No one wants to live in a marriage that lacks love.

In conclusion, all things considered, we want to help women find peace and joy in their lives. Polygamy is a part of our way of life, which is Islam.

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7 Comments

  • anabellah

    August 11, 2016

    Musakaleem Mohammed, Wa Alaikum As Salaam 🙂

    Long time no hear from you, brother. I’m happy you stopped in.  It’s rare that we hear from a brother here anymore. You are very  welcome here. If you’ve got any advice for us ladies that you think will be helpful, we’d gladly like to hear it.

    I understand you want your wife to believe that you love her. In time, maybe she will and will no longer question your love for her. Women have a difficult time accepting that a man can love more than one woman at a time, and that it doesn’t take away from her. In time, Insha Allah, your wife won’t doubt your love. Just don’t give up. Keep showing her love. It’s not easy for a woman to walk away from a man who shows her love, if she loves him. https://www.polygamy411.com/wp-content/plugins/wp-monalisa/icons/wpml_smile.gif

  • Musakaleem Mohammed

    August 11, 2016

    Asa Sis Ana , this is so true I live my wife dearly and dint force her to leave me but want her to stay she has to accept that I love her.

  • anabellah

    August 10, 2016

    Karima,

    Wa Alaikum As Salaam and may Allah reward you too for all your contributions in helping to make the blog what it is. Alhumdulliah for all the lovely sisters here.

    I’m on the road, so Insha Allah, I’ll be back soon.

  • Karima

    August 10, 2016

    I was just thinking of that Ana… I never heard of a female wali

  • anabellah

    August 10, 2016

    Secretary,

    Your girlfriend can’t be yourwali. It has to be a Muslim male.

  • Karima

    August 10, 2016

    Alhamdulellahalhamdulellah for This blog may Allah reward you Ana and all the sisters commenting offering your valuable advice to us ?

  • Karima

    August 10, 2016

    Salam great post sis Ana, thanks for the reminder?