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Dispelling Old Beliefs about Polygyny

ummof4 is a very dear commentator here with us at polygamy 411.She shares with us her wealth of knowledge about polygyny. She recently wrote a very important reply to another commentator here about dispelling old beliefs about polygyny. ummof4 has permitted me to post some of her writings; therefore, I’d like to share what she…

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Marriage and Shirk

Some of us have mentioned the word “shirk” in some of our discussions here at polygamy 411. It is important for us to know what “Shirk” is, as “shirk” is a sin that Allah will not forgive a person for, if the person did not repent, and did not seek forgiveness from Allah for committing…

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How Marriage can Enrich the Lives of Spouses

There are Muslim men who marry women (1st, 2nd, 3rd or 4th)because the men and the women believe that the marriage will enrich the lives of both of the spouses. The new wife will have some of her wants and needs fulfilled and the new husband will have some of his wants and needs fulfilled.…

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Polygamy, Life, and Success

Most people want to know how to have success in not only a polygamous marriage, but life in general. The key to success is the same for one who lives a polygamous life as it is for anyone else. The solution is one for all. One must have the correct belief in God to have…

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Allah Permits Polygamy for all Men

Usually when someone hears polygamy mentioned, they immediately think of Mormons or Muslims. We know Mormons and Muslims are some of the people who engage in polygamy. When Allah permitted polygamy, He did not permit it only for a select group of men based on religion. Most people do not know that Allah permits polygamy…

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Is There a Lack of Communication and Respect in Polygamous Marriages?

I received an email from a 21-year-old female who was conducting research on the topic of relationships. She has read some of the stories from those of us here at polygamy 411. She thinks some of the husbands lack respect for their wives when they (the husbands) become polygamous. She believes there is a lack…

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Where Do You Fit in Polygamy?

Where do you fit in polygamy? How would you categorize your marriage or the marriages of others involved in your union? One of our blog sisters ummof4 analyzed the different types of relationships she has read about here at polygamy 411 and she categorized them, which I thought was very good. I, therefore, have shared…

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What We Need to Know for a Peaceful and Tranquil Polygamous Life

Before one can live a peaceful, tranquil, polygamous lifestyle, one has to have the correct belief of our religion, which is Islam. First, one must know the Articles of Faith in Islam, which are as follows: To believe in the Oneness of Allah. To believe in all His Angels. To believe in all His Books.…

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Love Allah More

One of our very special commentators, ummof4, the other day, reminded us to love Allah more than ourselves, our husbands or our children. It’s something that we can never receive too many reminders of. We should love Allah more than anyone or anything. There are many Ayat (verses, signs) in the Holy Quran in which…

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Can He Be Just and Fair Between His Wives?

I carefully thought about what “just” and “fair” in a polygamous marriage is. In doing so, I concluded a man cannot be “just” and “fair” between his wives when he is polygamous. Why? It is because Allah swt (Great and Glorious is He) says a man can’t. It, however, does not mean that polygamy is…

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