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Why Compete for Favorite Wife in Polygamous Marriages?

It is common for wives in polygamous marriages to compete with one another for their husband’s love and affection. They want the husband to favor them above the other wives. It’s probably a natural inclination for wives to want to be number one. A woman wants her husband to love her and, if there is…

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Does It Matter What Sequence Wives Married In?

Women who married their husbands 2nd in sequence have the same wants, needs, and aspirations as the women who married their husbands first or as any woman who marries. We already know Allah has permitted men to have more than one wife, which would make him polygamous. Consequently, some women will marry married men. There…

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What Polygamy 411 Is and Is Not

Polygamy 411 is not a polygamy club, nor are we a first wives club. We have a goal here, which is to accept polygamy to grow nearer to Allah. We grow nearer to Allah by accepting all of His decisions, decrees, and commands with enthusiasm. Enthusiasm is a major part that matters.  We should want…

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How to Have a Successful Polygamous Marriage

People want to know how to have success not only in a polygamous marriage, but in life in general. The key to success is the same for one who lives a polygamous lifestyle, as it is for one who lives a monogamous lifestyle. The key to success is the same for everyone who is alive.…

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Are Lusts and Desires Good or Bad?

Lusts and desires are not things that are easy to understand. A learned man once advised me that to speak of lusts and desires as they relate to the Holy Quran is similar to trying to teach geometry or trigonometry to someone who has just begun to learn basic math. I agree with him. I…

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Allah Permits Polygamy for All Men

When someone hears polygamy mentioned, usually, he or she immediately thinks of Mormons or Muslims. We know Mormons and Muslims are some of the people who live polygamous lives. When Allah permitted polygamy for men, He did not allow it only for a select group of men based on religion. Most people do not know…

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The Lopside of Polygamy

I am sure all Muslims have heard the saying, “A husband will find himself lopsided or paralyzed on one side of his body on the Day of Judgement, if he is not fair and just between his wives.  Does it ring a bell? It’s probably the first thing a person tells a man when the…

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“Marry a Pakistani Man? Beware!

“Marry a Pakistani Man? Beware!” Is a sizzling hot topic. Many Pakistani men come to the United States or the United Kingdom in search of a better life. To get the better life, some seek out women in the U.S. or the U.K for marriage. I will use the word “foreign” when I speak of…

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Muslims Sleeping With The Enemy

A Muslim man or a Muslim woman who marries a non-Muslim is sleeping with the enemy. The enemy is the non-Muslim. When there is a Muslim husband and a Muslim wife and he marries a non-Muslim woman, becoming polygamous, he sleeps with the enemy (the non-Muslim wife). The Muslim woman sleeps with the enemy, as…

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May Muslim Men Marry Christian Women and Jewess?

When it comes to whether Muslim men may marry Christians and Jews (who some people think are “People of the Book”), the answer is, NO. It’s not difficult to figure out either. Muslims should marry Muslims, according to Islam. There is no and, or, ifs about it. No, Allah did not authorize Muslim men to…

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